66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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    Hi All,

    Like all of you I am very happy I came across this discussion!  I was pretty sure I was either dying or losing my mind.  In Feb. I starting noticing this weird almost like when I was pregnant sensation right by my rib area in my upper right quadrant.  A few days later it was almost like an annoying ache and sometimes sharp shooting pains.  I noticed it was worse if I was constipated which I have all of a sudden starting having a problem with.  I was scared to death!  I have always had anxiety but I thought it had calmed down some but the last few months it has been through the roof (all day all night).  I made an appointment with my Dr, they ran several blood tests (liver, pancreas, etc), x-ray and abdominal ultrasound and all was clear (I am pretty certain my Dr also thinks I am a healthy anxiety nut). I had my gallbladder out 18 years ago so that increased my worrying.  I still to this day am concerned as my brain can't comprehend when the Dr. says i am fine.  I have noticed though that when I fixate on it (23.5 hours a daysmile it is worse.  I did start taking a probiotic which has helped some but not 100%, I also started taking IBGard (peppermint) before I eat and that helps with the gas and bloating a ton.  In the last few months I have also experienced brain fog, dizziness, dry mouth, no appetite, burning feet, hot flashes, night sweats, constipation/diarrhea, severe back pain (lower, middle and upper), ovary pain, cry over anything and muscle aches.  When I really thought about it some of my symptoms started probably in the fall.  I went through a 3 month period where I thought I had tennis elbow as my arm hurt so bad, to the point where I could not lift some things.  I had a hysterectomy 7 years ago but they kept my ovaries.  I was just 33 and it was because I had SEVERE cramps (had to take toradol) and heavy bleeding.  I had both of my children young and was certain I was not going to have anymore children so I made the decision to proceed with the surgery however I had complications immediately after surgery (hence why I worry about everything medically).   The only way I can tell sometimes when I feel like i would have my period is because I feel like I have flu like symptoms (achy).  I sure hope that these are all due to perimenopause, I can live with it but it's worrying about everything else my symptoms could be is what is driving me nuts.  Sad thing is I am only 39sad

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      Hi krystyn

      Sounds like perimenapause look up 66 symptoms of perimenapause have you had the creepy crawlies lije itching, ear and jaw pain, teeth pain. 

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      Jackqueline, I have the creepy crawlies, itching, and mouth pain too. I had my teeth removed in 2015 and now, it seems like I have phantom teeth pain. Lol! But my gums get very sore.

      And Krystyn, I have the pain in my right elbow that drives me up a wall! Along with my right hip and left knee. Jeesh, these pains are awful!

      I wish wellness for all.

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      Hi tonya, 

      I feel weak achy my teeth hurt ears ,it feels like I have the flu I'm shaky I just got my period on the 7th and here we are on Tuesday the 10th and my period have subsided ,have you had the ear shaky weak.

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      I know the feeling. Mine started the 5th and it's slowing down but I don't trust it. I never trust it. And on top of this, I caught my 3rd cold and have been vomiting all night/day. I feel like curling up and just dying. UGH!

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      I’m 39 too. I go from feeling reassured that it’s definitely just peri to thinking I’m too young so it’s cancer, dementia, MS etc and then back to peri explanation. 
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      Oh my gosh, no joke, I had to look and keep reading and see if I had written your above post at some point, because it is EXACTLY ME TO A TEE!!  I also feel/felt like I was dying or losing my mind! The health anxiety, weird abdominal issues, ..ugh..I am at the point where I am so angry that there isn’t not Only more preparation for this stage of life, but how about an actual solution that will work! How can half of the worlds population be suffering for years and years with so many physical and emotional affects and there’s really not all that much that can be done to help??  Frustrating for sure, I am so very glad I found this reassuring site. Know that someone is always here and reach out if needed. Have a good day 😊

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      That makes me feel a lot better!  This crap we are going through makes a person feel so alone and SCARED!  I had the stomach issues for a few months now I am on to the severe back pain (which can also be scary cause I always think the worst).  I just want to feel normal again.  I also forgot to mention in my post that I have ringing in my ears, electric shock sensations and I see a lot of people are dealing with the irregular heart beat.  I started having irregular heart beat when I was pregnant with my 2nd daughter 15 years ago and have been on medicine for it ever since but it still scares the heck out of me sometimes.  Sorry you are going through this as well.  I am going to the Dr next week to see if he will check my hormones and give me some comfort on some of my issues.
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      Hi krystyn, 

      Does your ear feels like pressure almost as if something is pushing in  also when you say electric shock is it when you touch certain things. 

      The stomach issues I had a few months ago that will subside, are you in perimenapause. 

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      That is how I think too!  I self diagnosis myself with something new everyday. It's driving me crazy.

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      No my ears just ring once in awhile.  The electric shocks are more like sharp pains that last a few seconds (my head, legs, side, etc).  I have not been told I am in perimenopause but I am thinking that is what this all is.  So many different symptoms and no real answers from the Drs.  
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      Yes I also have the ear ringing at times and weird shock type sensations in my chest or arms..not to mention the irregular heartbeat or pounding heart..very brief but scary and annoying! I always look to see if someone else has the symptoms I do and they always do!! 
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    Hi there!smile I'm new to this site. I've had most if not all of these symptoms. I had my last period in Decemer no period for 12 months. I'm on HRT but within the last month I've felt worse than ever. Dehydrated, depressed, moody, and my eyes and face are super dry! Has anyone experienced eye twitching? It's been happening for a month now frequently throughout the day, it's driving me nuts! Also, I've been getting this weird tingly sensation on my lips. Thankful to God for this forum.. smile

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      Hi viviana,

      Yes I had the eye twitching recently it was my left eye also along with many symptoms, have you had the burning sensation around body or ear and teeth pain. 

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      Hi Jacqueline!smile I've been experiencing warm flashes which feels like burning. No, sore teeth. I also have tinnitus, swooshing sound in right ear. How long have you had the twitching?

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      Does the burning sensation feels like you have a sunburn, 

      And is the ear issue like an ear pain. 

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      The burning sensation is like a deep burning pain that affects my legs. But I also get those hot flushes that feels like lava bursting from my skin. And my jaw and ear almost feels like tmj I will open and close my mouth and I have gotten sharp stabbing pains behind the ear on the Mastoid Process. Those suckers hurt! And you never know when they will happen.

       

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      I started this in my 30s around 2008 the year I turned 38. That was when I started getting nausea before my cycles and I am so grateful that I never had to experience that from age 13 when I started. I have read that there are girls who start like this. BRR! They have my pity. In 2011, I started feeling lost in a tunnel and that flipped me out, because it was like everyone around me was fading away from me. It was my husband who told me it is menopause starting up. I had a spell on the last day of November of '11 that scared the crap out of me. I started shaking in a bad panic attack and was violently nauseous! I had to go to bed and that eased it off. In Dec of '11, I was getting out of our car and my right leg threw me against the car and about took me to the ground. That was my first encounter with that ball/socket pain. It started catching and made it hard to walk. I had bad panic attacks and still do and I got heart palpitations like quivers and my mood swings really kicked in worse than ever, I can go from crying like a sobbing maniac to laughing and then anger. I swear it is like I am insane! Now a days, the joint pain has hurt pretty badly, knees, shoulder, elbow, hip and neck, but I have noticed in the past day, the pain in my elbow has cleared up a little. It feels like I have a gremlin lose in my body. As I said, before, I caught a new cold and it is my 3. I have been sick from January when I threw up last and last night and today, I have been throwing up badly. And when I throw up, my bladder goes full force incontinence. Sighs, this is just awful.

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      It's more of an inner burning.. No pain in the ear, just a swooshibg sound like the rhythm of a heart beat. More annoying than anything.. rolleyes This eye twitching is driving me nuts though!

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      I’m taking echinacea every day and using Vicks First Defence it helps keep viruses away! Try that maybe? I have nausea following the end of periods too. As I come towards ovulation it’s quite bad. I eat ginger all the time. And popping a really strong menthol sweet or gum helps to ward off the start of a panic attack. 
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      Omg, the eye twitching!!! Nearly drove me mad because of cause I assumed it meant I had a brain tumor, Parkinson’s or something else...just awful..and always, by the time I was going to call my doctor… It went away! As do most of the complaints that I have stomachaches, headaches, weird numbness at the tip of my nose… Just crazy things but I’m so glad I found this because otherwise really would think it was in my mind. Take care and reach out whenever needed .
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      Gi amy,

      I'm in perimenapause I had my left eye tgat was twitching for a few days thank God it went away I now have the ear issue it's bothering me and also my jaw and teeth, do you get fatigue. 

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      Oh yes there are days (seemingly random because I don’t track it much)  that I am SO tired..almost like I’m getting sick but then it’s just fatigue and muscle aches and does go away in a day or 2..but those few days, i definitely need a nap! 
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      I am the same. There are days when I think I must have a mystery virus. Feels like flu without the sneezing and sore throat and temperature. Feel like I’m having to drag myself around. 
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      Don't think I answered this, but yes, I have been dealing with perimenopause for over 10 years now. And yes, the ear, teeth and jaw pain will eventually stop. With me, it seems like I get symptoms for a few months and they stop due to other symptoms starting. Then they come back for a while only to start again. Like cycles.

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      It’s so awful..makes me feel so old! I’ve learned to just go with it though now..just lay down on for a half hour either before or after dinner..helps a little😏

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