66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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  • Posted

    Bless You for posting this list!!!!! I am in shock that us women have to live through this nightmare.  I have just about all of these symptoms.  Thank God for this site, because it makes you feel like you are not alone.  I am just a little happy that their is an end to this horror..eventually.  Thanks again, and be well

     

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    Hi jayneejay

    i am suffering many perimenopause symtoms, backaches, stomached and the nausea is getting me down. Also my appetite can change from day to day, either I am really hungry or I don't want to eat. These are all affecting my life, any suggestions on how to help with natural remedies?

    • Posted

      Hi ruth

      oh bless you.. Its not easy..

      i took rainforest food maca 5.1 in early peri that helped no end 

      I still do take it ..

      also

      i take 100mg B6

      B12 

      Vit E 400iu

      Kelp 

      Chelated Magnesium 

      Vit C 

      i take many naturals.. all help me alot 

      jay x

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    Are itchy breasts also a peri menopause symptom? I'm 48 soon and have been having irregular periods for a few months now, but its been several days that I have started having itchy breasts, which makes me want to scratch them. They itch all over and both breasts and I haven't changed anything in my daily routine or diet. 
    • Posted

      Hi Manuela,

      I have been suffering like you with my breasts and did mention this to my doctor on one of my visits. She wasn't concerned and said it was down to hormone changes.

      Last night I wanted to scratch them so much, for me I have been using baby talc powder or E 45 cream. But last night felt so itchy all over so ended up taking an allergy tablet when I went to bed and this took the desire away to scratch and the good thing they last for 12 hours.

      Take care, Joy xx

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    Hi

    Thank you so much for this list, despite being mortified at how many I tick it is helping enormously to quell my cancer fears inbetween tests! 

    It gives me huge comfort to read these posts and not to feel quite so off the wall!

    • Posted

      I know exactly how you feel.  I am an emotional mess most of the time, and especially when I get a new symptom.  Hang in there, we are all going through it.

      Hugs

      x

  • Posted

    Thanks for sharing Jayneejay! Many of us can relate to this. I indulge myslef in reading this kind of discussions and article to keep me aware of the symptoms and treatment that Perimenopause can bring. I've recently got into this article http://anti-aging-today.us/symptoms/signs-symptoms-perimenopause/ which is somewhat related in this discussion. It talks about signs and symptoms of Perimenopause. Have a read! Hope you also find this useful. 
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      Hi

      Just saying that I am with you - 48 and have just been hit by a physical & emotional sledge hammer.  I am doing good food, yoga , breathing and walking - some of it helps some doesn't. I too feel out of control of my body and mind at times - very scary. My panics pass eventually as will this phase I guess 

      Be kind to yourself is all I can say 

      Thoughts are with you

    • Posted

      Hi

      I too am doing goog food.  I am a veggie any way but have started eating more and more raw food and have cut out all dairy apart from a little goats cheese and feta.  I too feel like I have suddenly been walloped, both physically, emotionally and spiritually.  I panic a lot every time I get  new symptom,  It definitely is no joke, especially when you have been used to being so fit and energetic.  I am constantly shattered.

      I was thinking of starting either yoga or pilates.  Do you think it does help at all?

      Hugs

      Jo

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      Hi Terri

      I understand completely.  I too am 49 years old and the last year and a half especially have been "horrible" for me.  I think I can say I have probably had and am still having nearly every one of the symptoms in the list.  I too get this ringing sometimes, especially when I am REALLY stressed as opposed to my normal stressed!  I also get strange tingling and slight numbness in my face, especially around my eyes.  It is all quite scary and unnerving.  I really do understand.  Our nerve endings become very sensitized at this time and all this is related.  I have been tried on different hormones and antidepressants but to be honest I hated the way they made me feel so I am just trying to concentrate on good food, a bit of exercise and some supplements.

      Try not to worry.  That is cute coming from me, the woman who worries all the time and is an anxious wreck now, but I KNOW IT WILL ALL PASS.

    • Posted

      Sent that message there, Terri, before I had finished!

      This is a great site and everyone here will understand how you feel.

      Check in at any time and you are sure to get support.

      Take good care and don't like the hormones grind you down!!

      Many hugs

      Jo

      x

    • Posted

      Hi joanna,  Thanks so much for responding!  I'm so sorry that you are experiencing all these symtoms...  It is so scary when your body does all these odd things and there dosen't seem to be a reason other than just that we are going through hormonal changes..  So nothing really has worked for you?  I haven't been to a Gyno in several yrs for various reasons but bottom line I hate doctors and I am notorious for putting things off..  I had a baby back in 2008, he was born with Down Syndrome, which was a complete shock..( he is doing great btw ) And my experience with doctors after that whole nightmare was to put it mildy very distressing.. Anyway needless to say I don't have much love for doctors and hospitals ..  But I realize it is a nessesary thing to do to get checkups ...esp. as we are getting "older" LOL .. I was wondering what it is that you take for supplements and if you feel they help you at all.. I have considered maybe taking hormone replacement therapy but that in itself can cause other kinds of symptoms, issues..  (( heavy sigh ))  I really appreciate your help and I'll try not to worry but that is very hard for me too..  I tend to dwell on things and I have anxiety and having hormonal changes just makes all that worse ... Here's to " this too shall pass "  May it happen soon!
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      Hi hope it is ok to tag along on the site. I am way past perimenopause am 55 and still experiencing all these symptons, to be honest it is just wonderful to see the list as I waste so much time convinced I have something dreadful, in fact the reason for searching today was reading yesterday that night sweats are a sign of hodgkinson lymphoma so guess what, today I am checking for lumps, I have become so anxious over health that it makes life miserable. Trouble for me is that the hot flashes/night sweats just go on and on, some days I have as many at 20 and wake several times as just too sweaty. GP sent me to menopause specialist whose answer was "your ovaries are dying get over it" and yes that is what she did say. I have tried herbal treatments and antipressants as cannot have HRT and too be honest my sister was on it for 12 years came off and sweats as bad as ever so back on it. Like everyone else am trying food and exercise to hope I feel better. Roll on better weather so I can get in the garden and not sit googling everything. Thanks for reading.
    • Posted

      I too have had horrible experiences with doctors.  My little boy, who had cerebral palsy was killed in hospital in 2003, so believe me I avoid them where at all possible.

      One piece of advice from a very anxious woman - STOP GOOGLING!  Really you will drive yourself nuts.  It becomes like an addiction.

      I take magnesium chelate, which I swear by,  The theory is, if it cramps at all, magnesium will help it, whether it is your tummy, muscles, whatever.  I take Vit B and D and think they are both helping.

      You hit the nail on the head when you said that it is scary - it certainly is.

      I have been to see so many specialists and had all sorts of things that I was worried about ruled out.

      Just accept that you are going through the menopause and that is it.  It is horrible enough without imagining things are worse.  I have to tell myself that every day and it does help.  Maca root powder is also good, along with lots of vegetables.  I have cut out all dairy and I think that helps too.

      Look forward to hearing back from you anytime you need reassurance.

      Jo

      x

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      Hi Jo

      Thanks for your quick reply, sorry to hear about your loss, I think this what is getting to me as I have a teenager who is constantly nagging me to get off the internet, I do google far too much and yes it is addictive, but after reading the list I can now put a lot of things out of my mind. I do take magnesium but not daily so will have to try that. I have not heard of maca root but will give it a try anything that help is great. Take care

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      I had such a nice day yesterday, thought for a while that the noise in my head was gone and then I went to bed and while it wasn't real evident at first and I ended up falling asleep I woke up about 2 hrs later with this horrible buzzing in my head..  It was unbearable .. I became panicked and smacked myself in the head which woke my husband who then just got angry with me for smacking myself in the head ..  He isn't very understanding when I have physical issues of any kind and just gets annoyed and angry with me ..  Makes me so sad inside that I don't have a partner that is empathetic and just gets frustrated and angry which is the last thing I need..  I'm feeling really scared and overwhelmed and depressed .. I know I need to go see a doctor for a checkup but my fears and anxiety keeps me from making an appt ..  Anyway I have been looking online for support and found a page on Facebook that is for tinnitus and while I'm sure they mean well as they use only noise therapy and don't believe that taking any kind of pill will help..  and while I'm certainly open to any and all remedies and would try the noise therapy .. to have them say that there is no real cure for it is rather disheartening ..   One thing I wanted to say about the noise I'm hearing is that its not like I hear it in my ears so much as I hear it in my head..  I hear some people say they have the noise in their ears or in one ear or the other ear but I hear it like its in my head ...  Hope you are doing well.. 
    • Posted

      Hi Terri

      I am so sorry you are having such a horrible time.

      I think, for a start, it is very hard for men to have a clue what we are going through at this time - they just don't and can't understand.  My husband is fantastic but he too loses it with me sometimes when I panic.

      The worst thing you can do with this tinnitus is to panic - it will only make it worse.

      I think a lot of the noises you are hearing are probably really due to hormones and anxiety and they can both get out of hand if you let them,

      There is a fabulous site, if you look it up, called "Buzzing Power Surge" and she explains all these things fabulously."  Tinnitus in perimenopause is different, I am sure, to other tinnitus, because when everything evens out hopefully all our horrible symptoms will pass too.

      The more you worry the worse things can be,  Try taking rescue remedy  - the night  time one at night - it helps me a lot.

      Hope you have a better day today.

      I think you should go and speak to a doctor if you can, a nice one, and they will, I am sure, put your mind at rest.

      Sending love.

      Jo

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      Thank you so much Jo!  I truly appreciate your compassionate words and advice!  I had a much better night last night sleeping although I could hear some strange sort of high pitched buzz which would come and go.. it was bearable and I tried not to focus on it ..  You are so right.. Men just don't get it ... It's not their fault of course but sometimes I feel like "why is it always happening to me"  For our whole marriage I have been the one with all the "issues" ..  Men just don't have as complex a body as we women do..  I had endometriosis early on in our marriage and had a uterine suspension to lift my retroverted uterus out of my cul-de-sac, I've had polyps removed from my uterus, a benign tumor removed from my breast, etc, ...  We tried for years to get pregnant and finally went the Invitro route which produced a beautiful son who is now 12.. Then found myself pregnant naturally and we had our beautiful daughter who is now 10 and last but certainly not least I found myself pregnant at the tender age of 42 with my son who is 6 now ( which coincidentally when I found out I was pg with him I thought I was going through peri-menopause and was getting strange symptoms at the time, I had found the site that you mention in your post back in 2008 b/c I was not able to sleep, was vibrating and felt like I would stop breathing and would wake myself up, heart palpatations, panic attacks, I thought I was dying and then I found "power surge" and was able to connect with other women that had similar symptoms and it was a life saver for me)   .. So needless to say the road has not been smooth for me or for us as a couple .. We have been through so much together and although my husband has trouble with sensitivity, he  has a more steady nature than I do so I feel grateful for that.. What he lacks in compassion he makes up for with his strength in dealing with life..   I really do need to go see someone and I think I found a decent doctor through Health grades.. She sounds perfect .. So we shall see..  Thanks again for your reassuring words Jo!  I really need to keep telling myself that this is all related to peri-menopause and that this is just a symptom of it ..  I will try that rescue remedy and get some vitamins and whatever else I can get to help me through this and work on taking care of myself better..   I hope you are having a wonderful day or evening ..where ever you are.. haha!  Much love back!  Terri
    • Posted

      Hi Terri

      I'm sorry you are having a hard time with noise. It will get better. You should go see an ear doctor to have your ears checked and cleaned out. Are you on any medication maybe that could be causing it. 

    • Posted

      hi Terri , funny my name is also Terri, im new to this chat , however,i have experienced several of theses symtoms. Im going to be 48 this year . Was on the birth control for 15 yrs. back in feb 2015 started having lots of bloating and gassy ( gross) however , i reliezed i was dairy intolorante. First shock , at that time i thought it could also be gluten so i left both since and i felt amazing ! however , missed a period on the pillin march 2015.very strange since im every 28 like a clock .started getting tingling and and pins and pricks on fingers and toes. totally freaked me out . thought it was the pill stopped that, it wasnt it was peri -meno, now im on a bio -identicalpatch seeing an acupunture and doing his natural herbs im no longer have a volcano within or i dont have anxiety anymore, i still have the crazy nerve endings that drive me crazy, but hopefully that will subside . my acupunturist wants to whine me off the patch, but its funny when i heard of the tingling on hands and feet bcause my ob dr. said that that wasnt a sign of peri menopause , i went on line and was terrified of what all came up from m.s to all other auto immume syndrome , very scary . so my advise to all is to do yoga ive been doing yoga for 12 yrs now but i recently more focused on honoring my body with gentle or therapudic yoga. lots of breathing(pranayam) to calm anxiety . and also bo-terra Clari-blend helps with hormone balance ( amazing ) how its worked for me and sandlewood for anxiety or calmness , however , they some at health food stores that say they are pure but the grade is not therapudic , i hope all this helped i know it is a pain but your not alone and that helps , that you are not going crazy , oh last their is a natural herb called theanine it is a natural calming affect on your body .< also startedseeing a hollistic dr , recommended  it . all this in 2 1/2 months . best of look also="" startedseeing="" a="" hollistic="" dr="" ,="" recommended=""  it="" .="" all="" this="" in="" 2="" 1/2="" months="" .="" best="" of="">
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      I am going to start doing yoga I took a progesterone pill the naural one made out of plant-derived hormones, I thought it was not suppose to have side effects. 

      Will my first night I took it was Tuesday night, Felt my legs hurting, felt weak all day yesterday, had a headache all day felt like I was not myself had to have my boyfriend take me to my job interview, took one last night was jumpy felt like I couldn't breathe, woke up at 2:30 a.m. heart was racing felt really weak, then after I took my thyroid pill this morning at 4:30 a.m. i was lying down got really dizzy. Not taking that pill again. 

      I wanted the progesterone pill made out of yams or soy that does not cause side effects. This one does. 

      Not taking this pill again. 

      I'm turning to yaga and accupunture to help my anxieties. 

    • Posted

      Hi jaanna49787 I have been tingling and numbness in my face as well aspecially around the eyes. It scares me, make me feel I'm having a stroke. What have you done to combat this problem. I've ben to so many doctors;cardiologists, primary care, my gyn says I'm

       not in perimenopause, because I still have a period. I have no energy, my energy level rises and fall. I just want me back.

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