66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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    Thank you for sharing.  I’m 46 and peri menopausal.  I’m experiencing some of these things and has caused me some great anxiety. Is estrogen cream recommended for peri menopausal?
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      I was wondering this as well? 
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      I personally think it’s best to get your hormones tested by a professional first to determine what you need. I ended up going to a naturopathic doctor this past June and she sent me for hormone bloodwork (I believe some GPs will send you but this wasn’t the case for me). It was determined my estrogen at the first day of my cycle was extremely high and my progesterone low. As a result, she has me using a progesterone cream at specific days in my cycle and a daily estrogen metabolizer. I will be checking in with her again in early Sept where she will send me for bloodwork again to see if there’s any difference.
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      KJVands  is right, never mess with the hormone creams on your own. I did that with progesterone, a couple years ago feeling desperate, biggest mistake of my life, felt like my ovaries and lower pelvic were going to implode.  My pharmacist has a kit that’s a saliva test, you get an order or prescription from your doctor for it and then you get it at your pharmacists. My only question with these hormone creams is, our hormones fluctuate so much, how are we even supposed to know, even under a doctors care, how much and when  to take it, when  our hormones are all over the place. That’s what I was basically told by my gynecologist’s,  nurse practitioner.  She didn’t want to put me on the creams. She, of all people, wanted to put me on   Antidepressants,  I didn’t go on them. I’ve heard so many horror stories when people have to go off them and the withdrawl, it’s awful. 
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    Hello Lovely Ladies,

    I am having a horrible attack of something. My inside trembles from my foot to my the top of head last night. I would feel this within my stomach area and a bit light headed. I'm now 52 had my last menstrual last year July. I'm very irritable, get vex easily and cannot take much of anything lately. Don't even care to go out the house much. When I drive I feel uneasy. I'm very concern with the way I feel. Earlier this year I did the blood to check my hormone and yes it all came back as one should expect. I'm in the midst of menopause. I'm taking Lydia Pinkham.

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      Is it some form of anxiety or anxiousness because that's what it sounds like you're describing? Give me more information on what you're feeling is some form of way describe it a little more detail

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    I’m having all kinds of crazy tongue and throat sensations. It almost feels like there’s hair on my tongue? And the burning or feeling like that. I also struggle with silent reflux and the feeling that something is in my throat. I clear my throat often. And I also have very dry mouth. This is just happened within the last couple weeks. Anyone else?
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       The dry mouth is for real, I’m not kidding I have it all the time. I have for years. Especially in the extreme heat as we’ve been having, I panic if I don’t have ice water.  The thing with your tongue and mouth and clearing the throat, doesn’t surprise me. Knock wood... I haven’t had that ...but I’m sure it’s patiently waiting for me in the future 😂

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      That happens to me whem im stressing..the other day i was walking through croud and i thought a hair caught in my throat ..also i use to clear my throat all the time , my dr put me on Omoprazole and it went away..

      Right now driving from Maine to FL my legs are hurting so automatically thinking the worst plus after 2 months got my period!!! i feel pulling the cat over and cry!!

      symptoms come and go for the past 8 years over and over...i had them all!! what ihate the most is being scared that bad things wil happen, bealth anxiety and lately im getting again horrible nightmares ..

      is like your life stops, cant fully enjoy anything anymore!!! Like Lisa says i want a cup of coffee without worrying how lousy you will feel for the rest of the day!!!

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      i meant pulling the car over and cry not the cat , i left my cat home lol!!

      my eye side went down hillalso☺

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      Hello I'm experiencing multiple symptoms and that particular one is very annoying. It comes and goes because sometimes you feel like your throat is dry like you can't swallow or something but to my understanding it does attack the saliva gland.

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       That’s a really long drive , Maria, to be feeling that bad, I’m sorry.   I know what you mean with the legs hurting, do you sometimes, think oh my God, I hope I don’t have blood clots.  But I’ve googled the symptoms for that,  it says the area is warm and red. It’s just miserable hormones. Do you know what I got to thinking. I had a terrible time with anxiety in eighth grade and my freshman year,  I mean debilitating, couldn’t wait  to go to bed so it would end.  Nobody had an explaination, well I do, it was hormones, hormones were the culprit. And hormones are the culprit now, only I am not going to let that anxiety get a hold like I did in eighth grade and my freshman year. I told myself at that time, I was never gonna let that happen again. I’ve had two bouts since, one brought on by alcohol and to much coffee afterwards. I told myself at that time I was never gonna let that happen again. That was 20 years ago and one when we were in Las Vegas. I think the one  im Vegas was brought on because I feel terrible for the immigrants that live there and some of the jobs they’re basically forced to do to survive and that prostitution is legal. I think that’s terrible,  haven’t been back since.  And the anxiety about health, I know, it’s awful, and even worrying about the health of your loved ones, it’s enough to drive you crazy.  When I get those feelings, and actually now my spouse has been getting them, I think he’s going through male menopause,  I talk myself out of it, by saying, God is in control.  Everything is pre-planned by him, so we don’t need to worry, just give it up & try to let go.  I know easier said than done, but if you say that over and over it helps🌞  Drive safe 😇

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       Oh my gosh, you are so funny, I left my cat at at home 🐱😂

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      thank you so much Lisa!!

      i think thats why my blood pressure went up from all the worry for my leg pain, thinking im having a blood clot!!

      the last few days ive been having this weird dreams that scare the crap out of me, they dont help also!!

      I battle anxiety from very early in life like you!!

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       Last night I dreamt of werewolves 😂  Do you know that my friends doctor told her, anxiety starts in youth u

      after an illness. It has something to do with being sequestered at home with the illness for days or longer. And then when you go out to resume your life, you have anxiety about it.  I thought that was a very very interesting fact.  I hope you’re home so you can relax.  Can’t remember if I referred you to  this before, but try this spray that’s at Walgreens or any pharmacy called, ‘Stop Pain’, it’s great,  I ran out and need more.  hope you’re home and feeling better, I called my pharmacist to ask him for a suggestion for the weird leg pains we are  having but he was out. I need to call him today ??

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      thank you so much Lisa for thinking of me☺ my BP much better..yes im home and resting..

      this morning felt se weak, i couldnt open my eyes..i drank 5 cups of water and felt so much better!!

      i will go and get that spray for sure.

      how are you feeling?

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       So glad you’re home, that has to be such a relief. I know what you mean about the water, I think it’s very important for us to stay very hydrated. When I’m feeling poorly I’ll drink a lot of water and feel much better. We went to the park and I was so thirsty and I shouldn’t of been, it’s so annoying. That  driving had to take a lot out of you. But also the symptoms are just so annoying, it’s like a revolving door, a rotation of symptoms, one goes away for a few months and comes back. I was having the dizziness today really bad.  And out of nowhere the cold flashes have come back.  So glad you’re home,  I am not a fan of long car drives 😉

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      Lisa,

      You are the Menapause Guru 😊,

      Nice to see that other ladies in this group are benefiting from your expertise.

      I can't thank you enough for your remedies when my left breast was hurting me and I got the frozen shoulder 😣, I'm not 100% but feeling much better.

      I'm eating better, drinking water, cut out the coffee 😉to my best ability.

      Drinking my B12, Iron and trying to sleep 🤗

      I hope you are doing much better too??

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      Hi Lisa

      I use to love to travel and now i get so anxious away from home!

      i keep worrying something bad will happen when im away.

      i havent had the cold flashes for a few years now..but again every symptom reappears every so often, im sure will pop up again like the rest of them.☺

      thank you again for writing♥️

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      Gilly ... You are super thoughtful, thank you for the kudos. I am so glad you are feeling better,  I know we won’t be 100% till thI s torturous process is over 😉Drinking a lot of water is very important.  The coffee is so hard to cut out but so necessary, and decaf coffee makes me feel like crap. I don’t know if you tried drinking that, I really don’t like it.  Is the iron constipating you, if so, you can take molasses instead, but you have to get the good molasses, it has I think 18% iron. So sweet of you to say such nice things, I’m hanging in there too, thank you for asking. 🌞🙏😍

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       Thank you for writing as well 😇I am the same exact way,  my partner calls me Sheila, from the Showtime series, Shameless, she is agoraphobic, the character’s played by Joan Cusick😂  I’m not that bad or close to that bad, but compared to how sociable I used to be....😏  I think you’re doing pretty darn good, all the way from Florida to Maine & back, I wouldn’t even want to drive to Chicago and back  and it’s only two hours away ...LMAO!  My friends going on some bus trip to Wisconsin for a play it leaves at eight in the morning gets back at 10 at night, no way in heck I’m going to that. Trapped on a bus for six hours 😳  can you imagine?!  I know exactly what you mean, I am terrified to go to Europe with my partner, because I’m afraid somethings going to happen with him, as he has health complications.  I think I already mentioned that you in a previous conversation, sorry.  I think it’s so interesting how we all feel this way, I mean everyone talks about it, the fear of death and illness.  All of this insanity does seem to freeze frame our lives for quite some time.  I like what Kadija said, you basically take the good days with the bad, appreciate the good days and roll through the bad days😉  I guess all we can do is take some good deep breathes  and realize we will get through this.  Try to relax now that your home, I do feel relieved you’re home 🤗 

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      Hi Maria, Can I join your club? The nightmares and weird dreams drive me bonkers. Also I have suffered from anxiety my entire life. I am so turning into my mother who has also suffered from anxiety her entire life. Sighs. She has always had death dreams that come true and now, I keep having death dreams. Just a few days ago, I dreamed that I could not save a baby from falling to its death and it disturbed me deeply. I woke up and did not ever want to go back to sleep. Also I have a lot of dreams of dead people chasing me and have had them all of my life.

      I can do dream interpretations but have always had trouble understanding these types of dreams. So, you are not alone with these things.

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      Tonya... you have a great sense of humor. It sounds to me like you are a bit psychic, I honestly can be that way as well. And I  Google my dreams to help with interpretation. I know dreams can really drive us crazy sometimes and be very disturbing.  Do you think you could possibly be a medium, but you’re not open to it.  Please don’t think I’m too far out there or crazy, but that does exist, do you think that’s a possibility?   Also is there a reason for your anxiety, I don’t mean to be too personal, did you have childhood trauma,  or trauma in general?  I did, that’s why I have anxiety. Just trying to help you find some solutions, because it sounds very troubling and you don’t deserve that. Maria is a sweetheart, so it will be good to have a touchstone for these dreams.  I woke up in the most foul mood this morning, I don’t know if anyone’s ever discussed this. Waking up in the worst mood ever, good lord it’s not even the end of the day, I have to wake up feeling like this?  Some mornings are really infuriates me that I can’t have coffee, today is one of them. Why does a simple cup of coffee have to be so disruptive to our bodies .... I also never really went back to sleep after I woke up at 3am or before 😴  My sister dreamt years ago when my dad was in the hospital after surgery that he was going to die and we got a phone call at 3 am and he did die. That is actually very common.  By chance are you taking melatonin, melatonin can be awesome for sleep and I have referred people to it, but it can also give you bad nightmares. I always got my partners melatonin from the dollar general and one time I was at Trader Joe’s and got it there and he had the worst nightmares ever. I went back to getting it at the dollar general and he didn’t have them . When I was at Trader Joe’s, an employee in the aisle, told me be careful with it, because it can give you really bad nightmares, For some reason  their brand seemed to cause them worse.  My sister had night terrors her whole adult life.  I think you can get to the bottom of it, if you do some digging??

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      Melatonin? is also a hormone! I stay completely away from it.  I also had to stop giving it to my autistic son because it caused him to grow breast!  I would say if you use it use it with caution, my daughter cant take it at all it gives her shakes and feeling very nervous and headaches she stopped it and got out of her system.Melatonin is POSSIBLY SAFE when used by mouth appropriately, long-term. Melatonin has been used safely for up to 2 years in some people. However, it can cause some side effects including headache, short-term feelings of depression, daytime sleepiness, dizziness, stomach cramps, and irritability.Melatonin is a hormone made by the pineal gland. That's a pea-sized gland found just above the middle of your brain. It helps your body know when it's time to sleep and wake up.“With some hormones, if you take too much you can really put your body in danger,” says Dr. Wurtman. “With melatonin, you're not in danger, but you're also not very comfortable. It won't kill you, but it'll make your life pretty miserable.” ... More importantly, melatonin is a hormone.?  This may not be for everyonbe. 

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      Omg Tonya!! same with me, im scared to go to sleep..i have dreams of family members that they passed on for a long time..i dream alots of water little children and older people!!! every night!! i wake up feeling so anxious!!

      it's so crazy!

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      Lisa, as i had told you my dad died when i was a teenager but there were only a few times that i dreamed off him..but everytime something bad happens so im nervous also, its been couple of weeks im dreaming of my mom also she doesnt talk but she is there among the other family members..the little baby boy i keep dreaming off im not sure what it means..3 years ago we lost our little grandson he died a few hours after he was born so im not sure if thats who it is..i just dont know why always i dream the same people lately..i woke up at 4am and i didnt go back to sleep...

      to scared😊 i feel so sad today!! still the headache but bp better..

      hope you feeling better!!you are our angel??

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      funny that you mention Europe..my husband is begging for us to go and im terrified..we went to Italy 4 years ago, i was having panick attacts..i was so stressed couldnt enjoy anything!!!

      one of my daughters friend's mom died at age 55 from a stroke going through menopause!! im terrified when i hear things like that!!!

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       Let me try this again, I started to write back to you and it wiped it all out because I had to take a call. I do all this on my phone. First and foremost,  I am so unbelievably sorry, for the loss of your grandson, there is no greater loss and that is for sure. My condolences to you and your family 🙏  What was the baby boy doing in the dream, was he eating, sleeping, smiling, it’s very interesting that your mother wasn’t speaking.  Has your mother always been closed mouthed,  does she need to speak up about something. There is a role/reason for every person in that dream, that is a very interesting dream dynamic. I google my dreams and there right on the money every time.  I think when we go through this time in our life, for some reason, there is an unconscionable amount of guilt, that’s what a lot of my dreams are about, guilt/shame,  that honestly isn’t mine to own. I have a broken family, so that might be related,  even though they don’t deserve my dreams, that’s for sure.  I had a very very profound dream years ago. There was a little girl that was literally neglected, I mean really bad, I’ll leave it at that, and she was standing on the foundation of my parents old garage.  For some reason they tore the garage down and left the foundation. In the dream I just wanted to hold her and comfort her and I wanted her to live with me, it was one of the saddest most upsetting dreams I ever had. But in the dream, I think the little girl was me.  I’m so sorry your sad, I just wanna reach out and hug you, think of your dream as your baby grandson visiting you, as a gift.  Maybe he’s letting you know he’s ok, if you ever question that. But those other dead relatives, they gotta go 😂😉 It’s not funny but we may as laugh, as cry.  That is terrible about the woman who passed away from a stroke, so young.  Strokes are devastating, and so damm unfair, but many illnesses aresad That’s what happened to my mom, only it dragged  on for seven years, biggest heart break of my life.  Also, our friend died of a heart attack last year and she was in menopause.  Put that out of your head though, who knows the health history, you know what I mean.  I know what you mean though about the sad days, really gets you by the balls, if we had balls 😉  You can look out the window and start crying and then five minutes later be fine.  I just think, this will pass, Plz...just pass!  Sending love and light your way friend 🌞

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      everytime i dream a little boy always worry about him..last night i was dreaming i took him swimming ...

      its been a few years that i didnt feel sad or the need to cry, i remember in the beginning if i would see a dead squirel on the road i would start crying🙂🙂

      i think the past 10 days travelling took a toll on my sanity, i was so worried and tensed up the whole time and now is coming out..we should once year meet all the ladies and spend a few days together, would be fun!!!

      Lets pray tomorrow will be a better day for all of us....????

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      I think your grandson visits you in your dreams because that’s his way of spending time w/ you.  Menopause is hell and you throw in the devastating loss of a grandson,  there’s no way you couldn’t be crying for years 😔 So do you mean that  every time you have dreamt of your dad, something bad happens after that. If so, maybe that’s your dad warning you.  I always feel terrible when I see dead squirrels or any little animal in the road.  Did I tell you about those little menthol pain patches from the Dollar Tree. They don’t always carry them, do you guys have Dollar Tree‘s by you? It’s a small box and there’s 20 in the box. I put those on my feet also for those sharp pains, I love them. I hope you have a blessed day🙏

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      🤦🏽???I can't...

      somebody pleeeease 😤

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      Hi Lisa. Who makes the pain patches? I’m in Canada but may find them online. I use a menthol cream but a patch sounds interesting. Thanks!!
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      My dreams warn of coming death. I get a lot of warnings before people around me die and I got this from my mother and both of her parents. I have journals of strange things that have happened to me/my family/friends. Anytime I dream of children, birds, and death it won't be long until I hear of death and this also happens when I have crying spells. And it doesn't have to be personal. For instance, before hurricane Katrina hit in '05, in July, I went to my knees bawling because I felt a massive loss of life happening to the south of me. New Orleans is south of me. These things have happened all of my life. My mother would start crying suddenly and some sort of tragedy would happen later. She even dreamed of a funeral and it ended up being my stepdad that died and things in her dream were exactly as she had dreamed them. -I agree, these things happen all the time. It is something to dream of someone's death and have it happen. I do this as well. No, I am not taking any meds now. I am stubborn and even quit the meds that the dr wanted me to take and I quit going to the drs.

      Thanks for sharing with me and thank you for your help. smile I am taking it day by day and whatever happens is fated to happen as per my beliefs. Take care.

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      Let me tell you a dream that absolutely freaked me out from May of 2017. I dreamed I was in this old house with a little girl that was around 7 years old and she had beautiful dark hair put up in ringlets and she skipped off from me and fell through a hole and when I looked into the hole, there was muddy turbulent water. I went out and down to try to save her but she had turned into one of those old china dolls. I HATE THOSE THINGS! UGH! The last part of the dream showed a brand new beautiful horizon and that was good, but the child part flipped me out!
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      Tonya,

      I have been having the same dreams..

      im not sure if its something will happen or is just do to going to bed all worried and anxious..

      About 5 years ago i had a scary dream for a week and always my son was in it. i dreamed he was falling at this dark water off the pierand iu couldnt reach him, 3 monrhs later i had to see my son going through chemo for 8 months!!!I understand completely how you feel..

      just pray and hope for the best♥️

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      Being psychic can be a curse at times when these things happen. I'm sorry that you had the warnings and that your son had to go through that. Yes, prayer is a powerful thing and it helps.

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