7 weeks out still a lot of pain and depression.
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I just really thought I'd have a lot less pain by now. I had my ankle replaced and it sure wasn't anything like this and by now I was off all drugs and felt almost 90% nomal with doing anything in life. I still can't stand or sit longer than 30-45 minutes without having a lot of discomfort. I hardly have ever taken any pain pills in my life (58 yrs old) but I set an alarm now so I remember to take them every 4 hours now with this. Dr. says healing and ROM are great for time after surgery but I still feel like Ii just cann't do anything. My depression ccomes and goes but hits me really hard because I don't feel like I can do much of anything. Part of this is also that I have to get my other knee done beore the end of the year and I just gt sick thinking of it..What is the average amount of time you all have taken pain pills and dealt with this ? Thanks, Peg
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Pain comes and goes. So does swelling. You have been through A LOT. There ARE no hard and fast rules because no two surgeries are alike.
I had both knees done in four month's time. My LEFT KNEE recovery was/is slower than my right. I suspect I was in better shape due to the PT I was having on knee#1. My therapists had me work muscles as I was laying down or sitting and had me do BOTH LEGS. I completed therapy on LEFT KNEE two days before my surgery on RIGHT KNEE.
I had TERRIBLE pain in my RIGHT KNEE and honestly could hardly WAIT to get my surgery! Yes, I have pain. ALL surgery comes with pain! It is POSITIVE pain, though, because I realize I made the decision to have the surgeries to FIX WHAT really was going down the drain very fast.
Try to think positive thoughts. Try to focus on what you can do TODAY that you were unable to do BEFORE surgery or shortly AFTER surgery. I bet you will be able to think of many things!
On some days I definitely need ALL scheduled pain meds! Currently taking Extra Strength Tylenol every six hours. On other days I look at my hand for the NEXT AVAILABLE TIME that I write there for quick reference and realize I am a couple HOURS past when I COULD have taken more medication! It varies greatly.
Interestingly enough, I have found that when I sit too long or am laying down too long in bed, I actually have more PAIN. Getting up and MOVING decreases pain! Try moving more. It may help you, too!
I have kept a journal for each KNEE. Each day I read my first journal to see what I was thinking about on each day. I am a week post op with KNEE #2, so it helps to compare the two knees. I also enjoy reading about stuff that concerned me and progress I have made so far. It is very interesting! I guess it is a lot like having two children; first child throws you for a loop (or at least OUR first one did!) Second child worries are SO MUCH MORE minimized because you are more relaxed, have some confidence you didn't have first time around, and you ALSO have FIRST CHILD to take care of!!! You just DEAL WITH IT when it happens and are thrilled that you are succeeding without all the WORRY.
I think you are probably being too tough on yourself. You have gone through a lot, and it has been only seven weeks. It took me NINE WEEKS with my first knee just to be able to maneuver turning over on my stomach to sleep! Ahhhhh! THIS time I managed to accomplish it LAST NIGHT, six days post op. You learn a lot from surgery number one. You go into surgery #2 as a VETERAN!
You will be fine!
Keep visiting this site. You can't beat the wisdom of those here. They have been though it. They can identify with you. There's someone or MANY ones who have felt what you are feeling.
Come often. Post often. Help others who are just beginning THEIR journey. You have already learned a lot.
Looking forward to hearing great things from your recovery!
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Try the wheat bag, it's worth a go. Only heat it for 2 minutes and protect your wound with a folded tea towel, so you don't burn yourself. I hate to read how much pain and depression you are experiencing so hope some of my solutions can also be yours.
cheryl90571 elizabeth66252
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Could you tell me more about the WHEAT BAG you mentioned? I haven't heard of it, but it sounds like a winner!
Thanks!
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I like to keep a list of what helps so I can refer to it at bad times,like when I'm too depressed to think. For me ice and distraction are my best tools.
It's a fight to stay up and positive.