Abdominal problems after sex with boyfriend over 1 month ago.

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Okay so I’m gonna try to keep this as short as possible even though this topic is really hard to talk about. I’m 17 years old, gay, and I have parents that definitely will object if they ever find out. I have a boyfriend and we’ve been together for 1 year now. About 1 month ago, I made the choice to have sex for the first time. I was the recipient and it honestly didn’t hurt. There was 0 pain. Ever since then, my stomach/intestines have been seriously messed up. There’s been bloating, nausea, and my stool hasn’t been the right size nor consistency. I’ve been to the docter and they gave me laxatives that haven’t worked. I’ve changed my diet and increased my water intake. I’ve literally tried everything.im afraid that something happened during sex that damaged my bowels? Is that even possibile? Im going back to the docter today with my mother and I don’t know how to tell the docter what’s really going on with my mother in the room. I also know that it’s never going to be fixed until I tell them the truth. I seriously need advice on what to do.

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  • Posted

    Your boyfriend needs to be examined. He might have infected you with something serious.

  • Posted

    Maybe go to the doctor with your boyfriend so you can speak to your doctor freely. Your symptoms sound like IBS; do you experience shifting abdominal pain?

  • Posted

    You may have got some bacterial infection . Ask for hpylori check. There are medications available for treatment, after it confirms.

  • Posted

    You don't mention if you used condom. Always use condom.

    Why do you have to be with your mother inside the doctor, you're 17 not 7 .

    You begin with blood tests and you see where it goes from there.

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