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marey
marey

My experience is very limited compared to some but I 've been subjected to the tyranny of close 'observation' for a very long time now.

It has to do with the obsessive concerns of my 'best friend's' parents.

My phone and lap top have been monitored constantly and I'm now utterly fed up with it. Police are aware but need me to produce evidence. How on earth do I do that?

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  • georgeGG
    georgeGG marey

    Posted

    Hello Marey

    The iPhone , iPad, iPod family have at least one app that takes a photo whenevere there is a failed password. It might be worth the investment given the distress you are suffering.  

    Best wishes George

    • marey
      marey georgeGG

      Posted

      THANK YOU so much George. I will look into it.
  • linda83143l
    linda83143l marey

    Posted

    Hi I had the same strange messages, and yes it looked like telephone numbers.

    I reported it.

    I had at least 20 of these.

    Xx

    • marey
      marey linda83143l

      Posted

      sorry linda...I can't relate to this. I ve had no strange no's or messages....so yours is a different experience.
    • linda83143l
      linda83143l marey

      Posted

      There is some forum on this but it got too heavy sp I left it.

      Sorry fir confusion

      X

    • marey
      marey linda83143l

      Posted

      ok thanks.

      is there already an abuse/technology thread on patient uk? or was it somewhere else?

  • frustrated61
    frustrated61 marey

    Posted

    Marey, If you're sure they are monitoring you constantly, how do you know this?  That should suffice as your proof as you must have something tangible, right?

    Good luck

    Frustrated

    • marey
      marey

      Posted

      its a matter of gathering proof and then bringing an action against my friend's parents....not a worthwhile strategy
    • frustrated61
      frustrated61 marey

      Posted

      Marey ~

      May I ask why they would want to monitor you?  If you don't feel comfy answering, I understand.  i was just curious.

      Frustrated

    • marey
      marey linda83143l

      Posted

      you would have to ask them. i don't know what on earth they want...neither do they i don't think...other than to exercise control over an area not part of their domain.

      i object so strongly to what they are doing and what they've got themselves mixed up in including with some violent types i want nothing to do with them....but even tho my friend and i are no longer together...they still haven't dropped the interference.

    • frustrated61
      frustrated61 marey

      Posted

      I've caused you massive stress?  I'm just asking the question because sometimes the answer lies w/i the answer...and some are too close to see that.  Just was curious.  Didn't mean to cause you stress.  My apologies. sad

      Frustrated

    • frustrated61
      frustrated61

      Posted

      the answer lies w/i the question...sorry for that confusion.
    • marey
      marey frustrated61

      Posted

      hey frus

      there's no way you are responsible for my stress. It is me who causes my own stress. Its about how I respond. I have choices. So far i have tried to ignore the causation ...but thats not working...so need a new plan!

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