Advice please! Dating a new guy...
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I was diagnosed with hsv-1 a couple of years ago. Had one outbreak and since then occassional symptoms but no outbreak like the first time. I've been dating this guy for a few months. It's been a slow moving relationship even prior to me sharing my lovely news. I told him about 2 months ago that I have ghsv-1 and we still haven't had sex. I'm definitely internalizing feelings of undesirability and unworthiness. He initiated it one morning - 10 minutes before we had to be at work but hasn't mentioned anything since. He said he wants to go down on me and wants to see a doctor to ask questions but hasn't taken any real initiative in a. getting tested himself b. expressing any urgency in scheduling an appt.
Am I being overly sensitive and ridiculous? It seems like a long time to be dating someone and not sleeping together and I feel that if my virus wasn't a factor that we would have been having sex for at least a month or so.
Honest, unfiltered opinions are needed!!
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Anyway, thank you!
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