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I have been with my partner for nearly 4 years. He is a really caring, kind bloke and is very thoughtful on most things. I have just one issue. When we go out with friends he cannot handle his drink and gets so drunk that he ruins the whole night for me. We went to my brothers house at Xmas and I was unwell with bronchitis and a chest infection. This made it so that I didn't drink. Well we went out and had a good night (not too drunk) then went back to my brothers where we were staying. He continued drinking much to my annoyance and asking him to stop drinking. Anyway he got that drunk he slept on the lounge floor, was sick on my brothers feet and the rug (brother thought this was funny) then ended up wetting himself! I was mortified although all the others thought it was funny. Boyfriend was embarrassed but didn't seem to think it was anything major. I ended up driving the 2 hours home despite not feeling well because he was too over the limit.
Anyway another night out recently with friends in Whitby and we go out drinking mid afternoon. By 9pm he throws up on the table in the pub and I have to take him back to the hotel and put him to bed. I sit there watching tv full blast whilst he is snoring at 10pm feeling annoyed that we are here again (friends again think its funny that he is a lightweight).
Now it is getting to the stage where I don't want to go out with him drinking because its embarrassing and I am fed up with it. Tried to talk to him about it and he just agrees its not on and that he wont drink a lot or just gets arsy with me for "nagging".
Is this the start of a drink problem? How do I deal with this?
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