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Hi Ladies, hope you're all doing well. Well, his cranky Ol lady is ranting again lol...don't feel as though I'm in a good spot at the mo, I feel done, I feel empty, I feel nothing, I feel broken...my marriage seems devoid of warmth n closeness, hubby has had enough, not enough sex for him & cuddles just don't do it, I enjoy cuddles they somehow make me feel safe n give me comfort but since he says he's not a 'teddy bear'....there's little physical connection & I just feel empty n broken. It's like all these menopausal upheavals have done me in & destroyed my soul, am I really horrible for feeling ok or even better, more settled on my own without hubby where there's no pressure or expectation about/wanting closeness n sex? don't know the outcome of my marriage, or even me & recently discovering being asexual with a hubby who is the complete opposite...what do I do, just give up? discovering this now explains a lot of problems I've had. Sorry ladies, I'm such a bag of misery...this probably isn't a very appropriate 'menopausal' post. I wish I could feel well n normal everyday, not in a repeatitive cycle of days some good some bad with emotions that resemble a tsunami 😭
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