Am I manic? Or am I right…
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I've been in my relationship for almost 6 years now.. it’s my longest relationship I’ve ever been in. All the simple basic parts are fine, I love him he makes me happy and feel safe all the above, but we haven’t had sex in months….. I’m not satisfied but if I try to talk about it he makes me feel like I’m being selfish. “If you wanna ruin a 6 year relationship over a lull in our sex life…” type of stuff. But this isn’t a new issue it’s been a growing and building issue for the last 3-4 years. First it was a couple weeks between times, then a month or two.. now we’re at 4 months. What’s next.. a year? Idk what to do… I don’t wanna throw in the towel but I feel like my voice and complaints aren’t being heard anymore. He was there for me when I really first started venturing into working on my mental health and knowing something was different about me.. so I feel obligated to stay with him during his struggles. I would have no issue sticking it out and being patient, btw, if I actually thought anything was going to change..... I don't want it seem like I am insensitive. This has been a long road.... I just don't know how to tell the difference in what my brain thinks. What is my paranoia... what are valid thoughts... idk.
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barbara66703 lorna84231
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every relationship goes thru what you describe. it's what you learn from it and how to cope is what's important. something needs to change getting treatment or just a get away . sometimes we learn how to make ourselves happy while adjusting to difficult mood swings of those we love .