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Am i really pregnant or just freaking out ???

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Sam917
Sam917

Hi,

My name is Samara and I'm new here. I'm also a teenager ( 16 yrs )

So it all happened on the 24th January 2014. I had undergone a surgery ( appendix ) After that everything was o.k till i slept with my BF. He didn't ejaculate in my v**** nor did he enter my v****. It was just kinda rubbed it on my v****. I was supposed to get my period the following day but it didn't come. I wasn't really worried cause i'm extremley irregular. But it never delays more than 2 weeks though.

So 3 weeks passed by and still no sign of aunt flu. Was also feeling nauseous, back pain and movement in my lower abdomen.So my BF bought a home pregnanct test device and Thank God it appeared negative. I thought all this was cause the antibiotics, painkillers and so on. And finally aunt flu did come but shorter and lighter then usual.

But now i'm really scared cause my belly has showed a bit, still fealing nauseous, back pain. And now also my shoulder tip is aching. And when i sleep at night i can hear a heart beat in my upper belly button and it gets stronger when i press it with my hand. I am even urinating more than usual.Nose is bleeding and really odd but i can feel something moving in my belly belly and it's kinda also farting.

I really don't know what to do. I thought before seeking help with my parents or so, I'd ask you guys. Frankly speaking they would be heart broken if I tell them what i've done. I never wanted to do what i've done. I even feel like crying sometimes.What should i do...what is it i'm really getting. Please help guys..Please help

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  • iperfectkitchen
    iperfectkitchen

    Posted

    I think the best thing you would do is see a doctor to check up on you and examine you to really find out the truth since your pregnancy test comes up negative so to be sure you need to see a doctor. It's also for your own good and if ever your pregnant you can take care of yourself and the baby too inside your belly.
  • Sam917
    Sam917

    Posted

    Hey iperfectkitchen,

    Thanks for your reply. In fact i did go to the doc. He did an ultrasound near my lower abdoman and said everything is ok ( near my operation).Cause if ever i am pregnant he would have detected the baby as ultrasounds are done near the lower abdomen. And i can't do to see a doctor just like that on my own. Cause here where i live you need to be 18+ for pregnancy check ups. Can't even ask help from my parents as they will kill me on knowing that.

    Sometimes i think it's cause of the surgery as i'm still on medications. I really don't know what to do. Only you guys can help me know or i think commiting suicide is the best option.

    • Beccah250
      Beccah250 Sam917

      Posted

      Hiya I hope all your problems have been solved, how are you doing now?

      Just so know Commiting Suicide is never the answer if you ever need someone to talk to just reply to this message please smile

  • SAB861
    SAB861 Sam917

    Posted

    I would be extremely shocked if you were pregnant.

    Do another test to put your mind at ease but I would say you're not.

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