Am I worrying unnecessarily?
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Thinking of changing my forum name to Moaning Minnie!
Nearly 8 weeks post op rectocele repair. I've not always been convinced it's worked but have been reassured that it's all down to healing etc.
So to today, needed a bowel motion, went to the loo and was back on the same old cycle of needing to go, not being able to go, feeling bulgy etc. Felt vaginally and there was a definate bulge. Pressed and was able to go. I was regularly "splinting" before the op.
Also before the op I was unable to pass urine and have a bowel motion together. Today was beck to having a bowel motion , wash hands then return to have a wee.
Should I be wrrying about this!
If this posts twice apologies - it seems to have lost the first one - but maybe not!
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Laura3333 trizwizz
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I tried coming off laxatives, and just using lactulose, like you it didn't work, back on both again. it's tempting to go back to what you had to do before ( splinting) just to empty your bowel, but if you can get the right muscles going, pushing down instead of forwards, it will help.
If you're pushing forward and splinting, you're risking bringing the Rectocele back by stretching your back wall.
Not easy I know, I've had the runs and awful wind the last couple of days, but not had to strain.
You'll get there in the end, it's like having to retrain yourself on how to push the right way. :-(
trizwizz Laura3333
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trizwizz Laura3333
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I wouldn't say that I've ever really had bowel trouble. The rectocele appeared - I had had no history of constipation or bowel troubles. I had no problem having either of my two children - 30 & 16 yrs ago - they both popped out with no problems.
Going to the loo for a bowel motion has not been a problem - I just feel the need to go - go into the loo and go - never had all that waiting and sitting/reading the paper etc. When I had the rectocele I was very careful never to get constipated - ate carefully, plenty veg, fruit and water and continue to do so.
Laura3333 trizwizz
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Before my op I went several times a day, on a high fibre diet, just couldn't push it out, it went forward into Rectocele instead, even though it was soft I had horrendous problems, trying to push and making piles and anal fissure worse.
If your bulge is going after a bm, then coming back when you need to go again, I agree it's worrying.
The bulge I can feel is there all the time and I'm sure is the wound repair that is still healing.
Know what you mean about the knee pain, had both mine done, it's on a different level, but for me not as worrying as this, maybe because there is nothing to see with this surgery.
trizwizz Laura3333
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I knwo what you mean about waste going into the rectocele that you can feel it - it is exactly like that. This is what I felt like htis morning - just back to filling up a bulge instead of the toilet!
There is also a bit of the lumpy bumpy swelling issues but really these feel minor - and to be honest have never been that bad. This is definitely different.
Laura3333 trizwizz
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Just the thought of having to have this done again, wouldn't want to!
I can push now and everything goes where it should although I still don't feel empty all of the time.
I had a Rectocele without knowing what it was for years, so going normally feels strange.
Yes it is hard to explain, when I first tried to explain it to my husband, he couldn't understand it at all, had to show him a diagram.
Do men get rectoceles? Probably not.
Jan999 trizwizz
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Laura3333 Jan999
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At this rate I'll be on lactulose forever!
Added to this, the last few days, shooting pains really high up, maybe deeper stitches dissolving now?
Jan999 Laura3333
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Laura3333 Jan999
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My old self wasn't all that great, so hope it's better than that
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trizwizz Jan999
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I didn't really have any pain post op - only took paracetamol and that was more than adequate. I was surprised at the lack of pain. I've had knee surgery which was horrendously painful.
What I feel is not lumpy bumpy swelling but a definite bulge - as it was before the repair. This morning when I splinted I could feel the bulge go back into the rectum as before - not the bumps of fleshy swelling. Once I'd emptied my bowels the bulge was gone - as before th erepair after a bowel motion the rectocele shrank somewhat until the next load of waste came down - so to speak!!
I've never been constipated and am careful with my diet - lots of fruit, veg and water etc. Never had to sit on the loo for ages etc
I'm not in pain now.
trizwizz
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Jan999 trizwizz
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trizwizz Jan999
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I do have an appt with my GP on Monday. We have the facility to book online appts for our GP na dthere was one free which I took almost just incase. My sick note ends tomorrow but I don't work on Mondays so I also part booked it with the thought that if I needed more time off then that appt woudl do as well. Still also having terrible menopause symptoms that came on from post op. So looks like it will be a long appt. It is also with the GP I try to see so I know him a bit better.
All in all this has been an pretty dire experience.
Jan999 trizwizz
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I know what you mean about the experience trizwizz, I've worked in gynae for a long time and I found it extremely hard. It made me realise just how important post op care is. I was shocked at so many things. I couldn't sit down for the pain I was the worst patient imaginable. My poor husband he deserved a knighthood.
Please try not to worry and rest!!!
trizwizz Jan999
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Ah! The bulge dissipated somewhat after the bowel motion - much as it used to pre the op. Which is what causes me to be concerned - it is not – in my opinion just the lumpy bumpy bits of swelling - more defined.
I didn't worry about the second doing the op - she has just been promoted to consultant and has trained under the man who I was supposed to have who does have a national reputation so I wasn't bothered by that at all.
I really didn't have pain. Many people seem to have been unable to sit down or stand or walk but I was ok. In fact it was hard not to do things because I didn't feel that bad.
Post op care I would have to ask what is that exactly? Whilst I don't wish to go back 30 years to a two week stay in hospital - there isn't really any post op care as such - not for any type of surgery. You are given a leaflet and sent away. I'm reasonable intelligent and can Google with the best of them but for those who can't it's difficult. This is not because those who work are more uncaring it’s the myriad of demands that are unceasing. I work in education closely allied with health – I see a lot of sick children and we have similar problems in education
Jan999 trizwizz
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trizwizz Jan999
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I remember when I had knee surgery the consultant gave me a sick note for two weeks - I was off for 16! I did ask my Gp if the consultant lived in LaLa land.
I think with this the consultant asked what I did for work and said "you won't be doing that in a hurry" I was told to rest. I think perhaps more specific details on what rest is may help!
I'm generally happy to post a question - after talking rectums, vaginas, sex and bowel motions it seems nothing is sacred and a posted question may help others. Thank you for the offer though - I may take you up on it if something comes along. I will see what the GP says on Monday - need to get these hot flushes sorted out too. Also due back at work on Tuesday which fills me with dread
Jan999 trizwizz
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