Anal Fissures: My stupid Experience

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Hello Everyone

Just want to tell you guys what has happened to people when they make stupid choices. Long Story short: So last week I was just chilling at my coffee shop and a guy was hitting on me. I thought he was cute and went over to his place and we had anal sex. My dumb-ass forgot to ask him if he had enough lube so we did it with the little that he had left. Anyway he was proven to be too big and I was sore after the deed. That night I did not feel anything until the next morning when it hits me. Bowel movement was a bit painful and tight and I noticed something was wrong. I try to look at it myself and didn't really see anything but it itched for the entire day. I thought I was getting a hemorrhoid like I did as a child but 2 days passed the now it was painful. I can feel that I was getting swollen as well. 4 days and it felt like an eternity but I began to change my diet to mainly fiber compacted food and gave up on coffee and tea. The pain made me scare to use the restrooms so I went on a water-fast each day for 15 hours. A week has gone now and I finally feel better. I guess the diet helps but I am still swollen down there. There is no more pain just slight irritation but why does it looks swollen? There is hardly any blood on toilet tissue and I am confused. Does anyone have any idea? It is exactly a week now.

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  • Posted

    if its a tear it takes time to heal. a week is not a long time for such a sensitive area. keep up with the diet and maybe see your doctor. keep it super clean. did you use protection? if not, check for sti

    • Posted

      Yes Definitely, I will have a check up soon. No, we went raw and that is another stupid mistake of mine. It was a day of stupid decisions 😦 I really hope people will read and learn from my mistakes.

    • Posted

      we live and learn. Go get some tests for sti's and stop calling yourself stupid. be kind to yourself and do whats needed to get better!

    • Posted

      Thank you! I really appreciate your advice. Will keep you updated on the process. hopefully it will give others hope to get through this.

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