Anxiety getting much worse by the day... :(
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Hey all,
I am a 28 year old male and like all of you here on this forum i have very bad anxiety. I have been getting these following symptoms lately, although some of these issues having been happening several years now, pain in chest, sharp head pains, pain down both sides of body, dizzyness (feeling like i am going to faint, especially in supermarkets or shopping malls where there are lots of people) ringing in ears, floaters in eyes, palpatations, etc and my anxiety issues are making me believe they are serious and potentially life threatening symptoms although i am sure/hope it is just my anxiety and although the pains i get are most certainly real they are most likely being exaggerated and made to appear like there are bigger issues (oncoming heart attack, ect,) due to my anxiety/state of mind.
I have been taking anti-depressants for about 10 years now, i am currently on mertazapine. I feel the medication is not working at all. I may as well not be taking it. I do think that all my symptoms are due to anxiety and nothing worse, and i am sure if i were to see a doctor about these issues he would confirm this, but i do have occassions where i doubt this and start panicking thinking i have major health issues, and i find myself constantly worrying about having a heart attack or brain aneurysm. It's a terrible feeling.
My question to anyone who is going through this or has been through this but no longer has anxiety/depression, has there been anything at all that you have previously tried with success or that you are currently doing/using that is taking away these anxiety issues? I am willing to try absolutely anything to help myself, as i am well and truly sick of feeling this way and it is ruining my quality of life. I am a 28 year old male, turning 29 very soon and missing out on my prime years in life due to my massive anxiety issues and i desperately need to find a way to stop my anxiety, and to be able to live my life like i deserve to without having these stupid anxiety issues holding me back. I appreciate any feedback, and if you wish to private message me you are most welcome to.
Mjay
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lynne82155 Mjay87
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So go back to you doc and get that sorted.
With anxiety the fight or flight mechanism is our bodies is broken and we think we are in danger when we are not hence you think you are ill.
Get a full medical to make sure you are ok and if this is all clear then its anxiety.
With a new AD and therapy you should be able to deal with it.
I dont think it ever goes away but you learn how to deal with it
Stay strong
Mjay87 lynne82155
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It is getting worse the older i get (anxiety), and there's only so much suffering one can take before you decide enough is enough. I hope i never get to this stage, and i just really do hope i can get the help i need asap so i can get on with my life and start enjoying it for once.
If anyone is reading these posts and wants to chat with me about their similar feelings/experiences i am happy to chat with you. Sometimes it helps talking to people who are going through similar things so feel free to private message me if anyone wants to talk...
jmcg2014 Mjay87
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martin06323 Mjay87
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jmcg2014 Mjay87
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Mjay87 jmcg2014
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louiselost Mjay87
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I took Sertraline (Zoloft) for anxiety and it seemed to help a lot. It may take 2-4 weeks to feel the benefits.
Start exercising too - anything, walking, running, skipping rope. My friend has one of those boxing pads hung up in the garage and pounds away at it for relief.
Feel better soon.
Mjay87 louiselost
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My goal is to get back into weights training and get my fitness back up so i feel better about myself and my body, but it's hard to get motivation when your feeling this way!
elaine75237 Mjay87
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Mjay87 elaine75237
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Excercise will be first on my list to try. I will do a bit of walking first and progress from there.
Your right about occupying the mind. The worst thing one can do is dwell on the negatives and have your mind racing with bad thoughts which makes you much, much worse. Trying to remain positive always helps, and my pschologist used to always tell me to try breathing techniques and that does help, especially as a remedy during a panic attack.
I will see the doctor as soon as i can, and see what his recommendations are regarding my meds, and i will go from there. I personally don't mind taking meds, but these pills just don't seem to be working like they used to so maybe i could try different ones? As you say though, baby steps is the key and any progress is good progress. Cheers for the advice!
donna47328 Mjay87
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