Anxiety insomnia

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So I got an anxiety attack last night around 3:40 am and it was horrible felt like I was going to die and felt like throwing up also, and I haven't been able to sleep since. its 11 pm where I'm at right now and I'm visiting a friend in a different town like 6 hours away from where I live, could that be causing my anxiety insomnia? Not being close to home? Scared

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    I am on my way to bed right now, but I saw your post and  wanted to assure you that being away from home and dealing with anxiety will indeed cause insomnia...even with people without anxiety. Don't be scared, Honey. Not sleeping a few nights won't harm you.

    Week-ends can be a bit slow here, but I am sure you will be hearing from others. I will check in here tomorrow. You may be extraordinarily uncomfortable and unhappy in the midst of an anxiety right now, but you are safe. Hugs until tomorrow.

    Oh, do your best to avoid things that make anxiety worse...fast and fried foods, caffeine, sugar, soda, booze and nicotine. Eat as healthily as you can in someone else's home, and drink a lot of water to flush some of that anxiety adrenaline out of your system, dear one. You are safe, even if it doesn't feel like it.wink

     

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    I always get anxious being away from home.. Mine is just generally not knowing where the closest hospital is, store is, something as stupid as not knowing where the closest gas station is lately can set me off. I promise you're not going to die.. What usually calms you to sleep? Tv, light music, having a fan on? maybe try reading a bit before you go to sleep and that should not only calm your mind but also make you tired also.

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    FEELING ANXIOUS? BE ALERT!

    When you feel anxious, anxiety-ridden, what is one to do? What do you ordinarily do when anxiety is there? You try to solve it. You try alternatives, and you get more and more into it. You will create a bigger mess because anxiety cannot be solved through thinking. It cannot be dissolved through thinking because thinking itself is a sort of anxiety.

    This technique says don’t do anything with anxiety. Just be alert!

    I will tell you one old anecdote about Bokuju, another Zen master. He lived alone in a cave, but during the day, or even in the night, he would sometimes say loudly, “Bokuju” – his own name, and then he would say, “Yes, I am here.” And no one else was there. 

    Then his disciples used to ask him, “Why are you calling ‘Bokuju’, your own name, and then saying, ‘Yes sir, I am here’?” 

    He said, “Whenever I get into thinking, I have to remember to be alert, and so I call my own name, ‘Bokuju.’ The moment I call ‘Bokuju’ and I say, ‘Yes sir, I am here,’ the thinking, the anxiety disappears.”

    Then, in his last days, for two or three years, he never called “Bokuju,” his name, and never had to reply, “Yes sir, I am here.” 

    The disciples asked, “Master, now you never do this.” 

    So he said, “But now Bokuju is always there. He is always there, and there is no need. Before I used to miss him. Sometimes the anxiety would take me, cloud me all over, and Bokuju was not there. So I had to remember ‘Bokuju,’ and the anxiety would disappear....”

    Try your name. When you feel deep anxiety, just call your name – not “Bokuju” or any name, but your name – and then reply to it, “Yes sir, I am here,” and feel the difference. Anxiety will not be there. At least for a single moment you will have a glimpse beyond the clouds, and that glimpse can be deepened. Once you know that if you become alert anxiety is not there, it disappears; you have come to a deep knowing of your own self and the mechanism of inner working. 

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    FEELING ANXIOUS? BE ALERT!

    When you feel anxious, anxiety-ridden, what is one to do? What do you ordinarily do when anxiety is there? You try to solve it. You try alternatives, and you get more and more into it. You will create a bigger mess because anxiety cannot be solved through thinking. It cannot be dissolved through thinking because thinking itself is a sort of anxiety.

    This technique says don’t do anything with anxiety. Just be alert!

    I will tell you one old anecdote about Bokuju, another Zen master. He lived alone in a cave, but during the day, or even in the night, he would sometimes say loudly, “Bokuju” – his own name, and then he would say, “Yes, I am here.” And no one else was there. 

    Then his disciples used to ask him, “Why are you calling ‘Bokuju’, your own name, and then saying, ‘Yes sir, I am here’?” 

    He said, “Whenever I get into thinking, I have to remember to be alert, and so I call my own name, ‘Bokuju.’ The moment I call ‘Bokuju’ and I say, ‘Yes sir, I am here,’ the thinking, the anxiety disappears.”

    Then, in his last days, for two or three years, he never called “Bokuju,” his name, and never had to reply, “Yes sir, I am here.” 

    The disciples asked, “Master, now you never do this.” 

    So he said, “But now Bokuju is always there. He is always there, and there is no need. Before I used to miss him. Sometimes the anxiety would take me, cloud me all over, and Bokuju was not there. So I had to remember ‘Bokuju,’ and the anxiety would disappear....”

    Try your name. When you feel deep anxiety, just call your name – not “Bokuju” or any name, but your name – and then reply to it, “Yes sir, I am here,” and feel the difference. Anxiety will not be there. At least for a single moment you will have a glimpse beyond the clouds, and that glimpse can be deepened. Once you know that if you become alert anxiety is not there, it disappears; you have come to a deep knowing of your own self and the mechanism of inner working. 

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