Anyone not taking meds ?
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Hi Everyone,
My name is Amanda and I am 45 years old
I am new to this group and have recently (June) been diagnosed with Fibromyalgia, although like many others on this site I think I think I have been suffering for years. I was always told I was suffering from depression, and that was causing my insomnia, which then caused my body to be tired and hurt...and had I thought about trying yoga and deep breathing !!!
After many blood tests and appointments and 16 / 18 tender points I was finally given a name for what was wrong with me !!
At first I was relieved to have this diagnosis and really believed that if I avoided stress and didn't over do things I would be back to semi normality... how wrong was I. I am finding the pain ,aches and fatigue disabling at any random time. I have no control over it at all lately! The insomnia is at an all time worst, sometimes no sleep at all and finaly fall asleep about 5 - 6 the following morning, and the slightest thing wakes me up again !. Fibro fog has also become a constant companion .
I don't know anyone else who has fibro and as hard as my family try to understand it, I know they dont really know just how bad I am feeling, so this site has been fantastic in learning about this awful condition.
I have been prescribed 10mgs of Amitriptiline with permission to find my ideal dose between 10mgs up to 20mgs (liquid form) by my doctor, but have been very nervous of taking it, but I think I am going to have to give it a try !
Anyone not taking any meds for fibro and doing well?
Any info on amitrptiline side effects and results would be appreciated !
Also any info on how you get your head around the fact you could feel like this forever would be so welcome..because right now I am struggling with that one
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deb97936 Amanda_Awake
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Some folk take some drugs, inclusive Amitrip.... it's may suit some folk, some it doesn't. There is a WHOLE raft of drugs if one chooses to try any or more with the GP, or specialist blessing/s.
Some folk have been through most of them and decided after awhile that they no-longer have the desired pain killing affect, or the side effects to much.
Remember to ween off any drugs you've tried or are taking..
(just quietly, I have heard that the natural wacky backy, is the best thing to use, especially for taking away pain, and for sleeping. Like most things, don't abuse it. But to use it as a sleeping aid, only when really needed. So far myself I have tried it twice a few years back, and agree it does work. But it's not legal here. I have to use half a sleeping tablet to aid sleep. I refuse to take a whole, and refuse to take for more than 3 nights in a row. I only use half a tablet to aid a good 4 - 5 hrs deep sleep, and then a couple of extra hours sometimes after not being able to sleep past 2 - 3 hours for days on end.
It is really important to 'Get Sleep'.. it's the only way our bodies muscles can get to relax and the brain to!!!
I am chemical sensitive.. so I don't venture down the path of experimentation. I do have to take just enough Tramadol to settle my neck into my head junction. Flares, I have to ride through as nothing will go near that pain load! The Ibuprophen I take for migraine heads...and I try to keep it minimal to, as the stuff is nasty stuff.
If and when Marijuana becomes legal I will be using/eating a little 'head' mushed up and steeped in hot oil, and then mixed in yoghurt, only on those nights when desperate for sleep OR in a major Flare.
All the very best Amanda.. take care.
Amanda_Awake deb97936
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Thank you for taking the time to reply.
At the moment I am using co-codamol for pain when I really need it. My doctor won't give me anything for sleep and I so agree with you that sleep is so important..I am lucky if I get 3 hours a night most nights lately...and a couple of trips to the loo included in that ..lol.
The reason I am thinking of taking the amitriptiline is to try and get some decent sleep and hope this will help with the pain and and fatigue!
I too am sensitive to so many things that I don't really like taking anything if I can help it..
Take care
deb97936 Amanda_Awake
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PiliPalaB4ch Amanda_Awake
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I too was prescribed amitripiline 10mg and I took it for a couple of months, it was helpful in so far as it aided sleep, but as I have been queried with Sjorgens syndrome, I stopped taking amitripiline to see if it was the meds causing the dry mouth rather than Sjorgens, so currently, I only take pain killers of varying strength - depending on my needs.
My insomnia is no better, my brain fog varies as does the pain, but if it wasn't for my dry eyes and mouth I would still take amitripiline, it did help with sleeping.
It takes time to come to term with this, I am not sure I have fully yet, but I have at least stopped beating myself up about not being able to continue to work, well nearly, and I am learning to pace myself better, and I am even starting to like myself again, but this doesn't happen overnight!
Take care and gentle hugs X
Amanda_Awake PiliPalaB4ch
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We are in a very similar situation, both being newly diagnosed and you are right, I think it will take a long time to accept that you are not the person you once were. I am still beating myself up about it and feel like I am spoiling life for my family because of things like, days out being cancelled and just feeling plain awful.
You've offered such good advice regarding pacing myself and accepting myself, hopefully I will be able to do this soon !
It's also good to know about the amitriptine helping with sleep!
Take care
Amanda
PiliPalaB4ch Amanda_Awake
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Take care my friend, keep in touch.
Ceri (pilipalab4ch)
Amanda_Awake PiliPalaB4ch
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I am so glad I found this group, it really has made such a difference already to my positive mental attitude !
I know already I am focusing on the negative side of fibro and I see now that I need to change that. I still have trouble saying no to people and that really does have to change, as I have to accept I cannot do what I used to do without bad days and flares happening ! But if I say no then I feel so much guilt about it that I am ill again anyway!! Tough one !
Hopefully we can be works in progress together and help each other through tough times!
Take care
Amanda
Bee70 Amanda_Awake
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I have been suffering for over 20yrs and only diagnosed with Fibro Aug 2014.
I have had an experience of a lifetime. In Noveember 2014 my GP referred me to have one to one sessions on CBT (Cognitive Behaviour Therapy) ....I was a bit sceptical but these sessions were only for six weeks. It has taught me how to be more confident and deal with one day and moment at a time. It has been an eye opener for me.
I am 45 yrs old with two sons aged 11 and 18 and a husband too. It hasn't been easy for me with not getting much support. Since being diagnosed and involving them life has become more bearable and the understanding for them much easier as so much information is on-line. If you have the attitude that you will NOT allow fibro to get the better of you but you to have a better life with fibro then that is the way forward.
Since having my CBT therapy it then gave me the confidence to look out for myself and in Jan 2015 seeked advice for herbal remedies and started with this in Feb 2015. Again, I was sceptical but to this date it's the best ever rewards I have had with my pains reducing. Although it is a slow process it is a POSITIVE one. Because of advertising please message me privately so I can give you further information if you are interested.
You are not alone and we are all here to help and support one another. I joined this forum March 2015 and have many amazing fibroites that are all in the same boat. Take care and sending you gentle hugs from ME to YOU...... xx
Amanda_Awake Bee70
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It's such a relief to have people to chat to regarding fibro!
I was offered CBT from my doctor a while back, but that was when my diagnosis was depression and anx , so after the diagnosis of fibro I felt it was not needed, but hearing how it has helped you it might be worth going back and seeing about getting the ball rolling again, because I remember it took such a long time to get an apppointment through.
From what I am hearing one main thing that can help me is accepting this condition and not fighting it, so that will be my aim from now on !! This will be easier now I have found this community and have support and hopefully can offer support to you all!
Take care and gentle hugs back !!
Amanda
Bee70 Amanda_Awake
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It maybe a good idea if you did have CBT and take a positive attitude to your day to day life. The rest falls into place if you allow it to and teach yourself to say NO when there is a need to. Put yourself first and not worry about anything else. One day and moment at a time.
It's working for me and that is how I live with a family it can be difficult but we all need our space and time for ourselves. We are not robots but humans too. Listen to your body and achieve one thing at a time.
Take care and hope you get relief soon. Gentle warm hugs on this windy afternoon in West London.... xx
jayanne Amanda_Awake
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Amanda_Awake jayanne
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I am too am only taking co-codamol when I really need them, but they don't help with the fatigue and insomnia and foogy head.
Sometimes it's the fatigue thats the worst because when that hits I am good for nothing, like I have been unplugged !
I too am in a lucky position where I have been able to give up work for awhile, so I really was thinking that stopping work and trying my best to be stress free would help..but it has not ! That is one thing that has scared me, because I thought I could manage my symptoms.
I am picking up so much on this site though and I am hearing so much about accepting the condition .. maybe thats my problem !!
Take care
Amanda
Amanda_Awake
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Thank you so much for all your kind replies...it is so good to know you are not alone and have others you can speak to who understand just what you are feeling. I hope to make lots of fibro friends here !!
One thing I am grateful for is that my symptoms have only gotten worse in the last couple of years..as my children are 26 , 25 and 15...so I dont have the demands I used to have in my life and can take time out when I need to...I also have given up running my own business for now, as it was just too demanding and fibro fog and taxes don't mix well ..lol
I am in awe of all the people here who have children or are working I honestly don't know how you do it ...I have two grandchilren and I love looking after them and they have always been sleeping over or coming for tea and its so upseting to me to have to arrange the days they visit or sleep over around my hubbys work rota so he can help me and take over when the fatigue hits!!
I am hoping this is just a long flare and soon I will be back to my own type of normal !
I plan to make some big changes in the new year ( diet and journaling to name a couple) and see if I can deal with fibro this way before I try the meds.
I will keep you posted on my new year plans and any results I have.
Fingers crossed!!
Does anyone else find keeping a diary helpful??
Has anyone tried a gluten free diet ??
Take care everyone
Amanda
jrichards50 Amanda_Awake
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My concentration was worse and just wanted to sleep which isn't practical in my line of work as I deal with patients every day myself .
I attend the gym as the rheumatologist said would help doing gentle exercise but that's when I'm not tired and must say I find it makes the pain worse but don't want to give in to it .
I take the occasional Iburofen and paracetamol to keep me going which helps a bit .
All the best for 2016 Amanda
Amanda_Awake jrichards50
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I have also tried gentle exercises and felt much worse, but the stiffness is becoming a major issue with me .. putting socks and shoes on is such a challenge these days lol..
do you find it helps with stiffness at all ?
Take care
Amanda
jrichards50 Amanda_Awake
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Just waiting on X-ray results as feet are stiff, tingly, numb and painful .
Don't know about you but each day I get pain some where else it's never ending but we can't let it beat us
PiliPalaB4ch jrichards50
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Amanda_Awake jrichards50
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I bought a cross trainer before I was diagnosed as I too had been back and forward to doctors and podiatrist and was diagnosed with plantar facitis and given an insole for my shoe for a dropped arch. They told me I had to use the insole 80% of the time forever or the pain would not go and my foot would get worse...I now believe this pain was caused by fibro.. because I dont ever use the insole and the pain is gone most of the time.. it did last many months though and my foot was as you say stiff tingly and very painful!
I thought the cross trainer would be the best thing to use as your feet are not leaving the ground so no pounding on the sole of your foot, however I am not sure if it would be OK for fibro. I have used it a few times and it did burn so much...but so does anything lately. It is currently being used to hang clothes off ..lol
Does anyone here use a cross trainer or anything for exercise?
I am only doing very gentle walking at the moment
Take care
Amanda