Anyone relate to really old person days ?

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So I am 56 and 7 weeks post right THR. Ok yesterday .. Looked round two shops and did a 30 minute gentle walk tho it was dark and cold. Felt it when I got in . So today I wake up and I feel as can only be described as a very old person . Ache most places esp my back and feel I have to use the grabber .tired and in pain and feel very stiff and rigid . Everything seems an effort and just want to sit still . My get up and go has got up and fled . Is this normal ? I don't think I overdid it yesterday ... Two shops and a medical appt then a walk .

Anyone else relate to this at 7 weeks ? Or am I going mad and aged 25 years ?!! Thanks

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  • Posted

    Yes I can relate to that! And have more admiration for older peeople and the disabled now than I ever have in the past.  

    Only thing I can say to you is that it DOES get better, much better! I am going out dancing tomorrow night with my friends and intend to wear heels. I now feel like a youngish woman again, so don't worry it will come! 

  • Posted

    Hi Hazel I'm 17 weeks post TLHR yesterday went out shopping with hubby was out 5 hours ish

    felt really good husband said not limping this

    morning could hardly move stiff,pain hurt to

    walk plus other hip more painful now o/a and

    needs replacing will this ever end,so keep your

    your chin up your so early in your recovery lots

    of rest as well as Ian said.Big hugs xxx🙋 👍

    • Posted

      5 hours hope you got a medal.... I am 15 weeks and can last enough time to do the weekly shop..... that takes it out of me.  

      ​Have done 2hours out and about and then slept all afternoon a few weeks ago... so that was body telling me off. 

       

    • Posted

      Hi Elaine when your feeling it's a good day

      you tend to just make the of it and like me

      ache like billy o the next day.

      Elaine do you ever feel uncomfy when standing

      round your scar/new hippio area? Hugs 😄

    • Posted

      Hi Anna

      ​If I stand for long it hurts, like something is stabbing me.. and if I sit for long in one position I get pain....

      ​Apparently I am expecting to much so the GP said  today.. soft tissue is healing and you will get pain....

      ​Went out for lunch today. feel totally washed out, and really did not walk much.. but just mental tension...

      Keep in touch Anna... and keep healing

    • Posted

      Thank you Elaine I tend to think I'm 15/16 weeks now shouldn't be having these aches ,pains

      feelings not now surely ,but not true as you say

      still healing,big hug Anna🌸

  • Posted

    Believe me, at 04:30 in the morning when I get up for work, my 'get up and go' has gone now.   I used to be OK with it, but not any more.   I really cannot wait to retire - oh well, just 160 days to go now ! 

    • Posted

      Just set the alarm clock ... and then sleep on my back frown until it goes off.  Only 100 more work mornings to go now before I retire cheesygrin.

    • Posted

      Depending which side of the bed you are on....cool Just put the left leg out...and follow it with the right one...cool It is that easy, just never go back to sleep just for " Five More Minutes"

      That is an accident waiting to happen. idea

    • Posted

      That will soon come round... if you count the days since your op and how far you have come.... 100 days will fly by then you can enjoy your new life...
  • Posted

    I'm 59 and was having those days before? the op! But great catch - I'll blame them on the op, and then I won't feel half as bad about them confused

    ?Seriously though (and yes, I was being serious before too!) yes. I'm 2 weeks LTHR abd doing great - but like clockwork, at 3pm the clock needs winding up and I am nodding off to sleep on the sofa and nothing will stop me.

  • Posted

    7 week old hip is just a wee infant...wants to be warm, hates cold, hates damp, does not like snow, but loves fireplace, cuddle with a kitty, drink some cocoa, little exercise, some rest...two shops, medical appointment, and a walk...at least you left out the jog...chuckle chuckle

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