Backwards I'm going
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4 months on all good then 1 week ago terrible pain lower back and buttocks. Scar area sore. Did some heavy gardening cos I could. Are two connected???
1 like, 13 replies
Posted , 10 users are following.
4 months on all good then 1 week ago terrible pain lower back and buttocks. Scar area sore. Did some heavy gardening cos I could. Are two connected???
1 like, 13 replies
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marilyn_92910 pauline26844
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Up to a year for the muscle to be fully repaired xx
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victoria19887 pauline26844
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I'm 8 months down the line and last month did a 7 mile bike trundle!!!! Then a walk was away for a few days I suffered with aching thigh and bum muscles for about 5 days after I think the key is to rest until the aches subside before doing any more strenuous exercise and gardening is strenuous
Hope you recover soon
Regards
Vicki xx
amanda1827h pauline26844
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maggie93798 pauline26844
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As someone else has said, take it easy for a few days, will then subside. I think of it as the body giving me an amber light, proceed with caution!
lynne09047 pauline26844
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I have good and bad days, but today I went shopping and was walking round the store for an hour or so, and by the time I got to the parking lot, My operated hip was on fire!! but it will pass, I hope, basically we have to re adjust our lives according to the situation that we are now in, the pain is better than before, but there are and i think always will be restrictions
renee01952 pauline26844
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warm hug
renee
pauline26844
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Humbled....Pauline
edarlingb pauline26844
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There is also a similar trend on other threads, lauding, for instance, how many miles people are walking after a few weeks THR.
I'm going to stick my neck out.
It strikes me that some seem to think our lives resemble something like a challenge. As in: 'I will prove to myself (and others?) that I can do x as well as I used to do, or 'should' do'.
This touches, I believe, on something quite profound. What is *life* about/for?
I do try not to be judgemental, but I can't quite understand what these 'strivers' are actually trying to prove, and why.
Surely, we are meant to live in the moment: not in another moment where we 'achieve' more?
I'm fully understanding of the opposite argument to this: onwards and upward = progress. But, hey. How about we just enjoy, appreciate and celebrate what we can manage on a day to day basis? Isn't there a glorious freedom in doing that, rather than a self imposed pressure to go beyond an innate sense of what feels right to each and every one of us, as individuals?
Just suggesting…
renee01952 edarlingb
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thank you for sharing your observation and honesty ... yes, it is true - there are definitley trends and waves of similar topics - thanks to all fellow hippies (including you) on this forum for that - making us feel safe and understood no matter what or how many times the same issues come up ... I find it very comforting ...
for me personally, this is something big I went through - my body has undergone something traumatic and I had no idea what to expect - just stories from people who know people who .... etc ... walk-in-the-park , right ... we all find this forum because we are/were in pain or worried or in fear .... and there you are !!! my tribe !!
of course we applaud accomplishments and little victories !!! with whom are you going to share that you walked up and down the stairs unaided ? or did a load of laundry - or, darn it, you felt so good that you worked in the garden, or tried running and now you are in pain ...
I have lovely friends, really ... however I cannot really share these little things with them ... they are not aware what we are going through - even going out for dinner and sitting in a chair for a couple of hours is sometimes taxing for me ...
I don't feel that I am in competition however a nice kick in the butt sometimes is not bad for me - and honestly, I don't think anybody tries to prove anything - I, for one, need you all as mirrors -
anyway, thank you for reminding me to be even more appreciative of the things I can do -
Blessing to you and warm hug
renee
maggie93798 pauline26844
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victoria19887 maggie93798
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Regards xxx
Vicki
Dave_H pauline26844
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