bad mood swings

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I went doctors yesterday and saw a doctor that was covering my surgey a locum who turned around and saidwhy with fibro do i need a stick welli have chronic arthritis in both knees and shoulder and lower back as well as a bone marrow disoreder as well heart disease and everything else, he turned round and said pheraps i should excersise more so when i told him i go gym twice a week swimming 3 times a week he shut up i told him about not sleeping and that was long before my medical problems started and toldhim what happened he said oh well, i was put in intensive care by my ex for 6 months but its an oh well, then i litally had to beg hime for something to help me and my very low mood swings its no wonder people dont like talking about depression when you get doctors like thati have lost 4 and half stone so far in 5 months alot you may say but no one cares or is looking into it yet i eat very well i eat 3 meals a day with maby a light snack in evening my workeout at gym is a gentle one with their pain doc and swinning is amazing till i get out of pool as yes the cold water hurts like mad but sometimes i feel like just giving up especally after this doctor was like this, i can go from high to very low but when your only getting an hours sleep thats not suprising can any offer me advice please i dont drink nor smoke i dont touch caffien i do drink plenty of water but im a mess my diet is healthy greek natural yougurt or bran flakes a samwhich with sald or fish for tea fish brown rice and vegtables if i do snack in evening its grapes or melon or another fruit these arewhat i eat daily so im trying im now a size 12 to 14 where 4 months agao i was a 20 im pleased but also conceren about the weight drop as i havent changed the way i eat in over two years nor have i done anything diffrent as i have always swam in fact i would swim daily then and run alot but could never loose it im so down as i want to help myself i have tried all the herbel remides and that and im very very tired i dont cant nap either so running out of idears 

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    Hello cherl450, Ive had Rhumatoid arthritis for 36years aprox plus other problems, I've had 5 plus partial knee replacement, wrist, knuckles, ankle replaced, heart problems which I just got on with them But when I was diagnosed with Fibromayalga things fell into place as for a few years I couldn't cope with my pain, my consultant I was stoic! My body went down hill with so many changes. I read about a "machine" called alpha stim, it was recommended by Dr Steel off TV. It's very expensive, my son bought a second hand one for £400. I've been useing it for 6 weeks & up to now I sleep well, more energy plus eases the differant aches &  pains. Hope I'm not  in remission & hope this machine is doing for me. I will let you know. Nicki
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      Hi there

      Thanks ill look into the that wishing you well

      Cherl

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    I think doctors need to be more knowledgeable re: Fibro,...most people have other conditions as well which really makes the Fibro soooo flared up..a little empathy would certainly go a long way with that locum it's awful when you see a new doctor and you start to explain what's up...I'm sure they think your a bit of a hypochondriac..but you know what..I just don't care anymore..I realized years ago..I have to take my health issues into my own hands and make sure everything I take or the doc says if wants me to do, is totally explained..especially any side effects to expect..I recon depression would be certainly an issue with all what's wrong with you..and fir a doc to say to you what he did, needs reporting..stay strong also be totally knowledgeable in all things...after all, you are paying them to help you...one way or another the docs get their pay..if it's not from your purse right now it was once through taxes..
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      Hi there 

      I spoke to my own Gp yesterday only briefely told her that i wasnt happy and that i need to see her she seemed annyoyed at me and cold well she said it will just have to wait till the new year and that was it beging to feel if i want something done ill do it myself ive been rushed tohospital the last few weeks were ive been collapsing alot all they want to do is give your morphine and say its one of those things you need pain managment yet trying to get a reffer to pain clininc is a complete night mare well sorry to ramble on and i agree with you we do pay them some of them should be stuck off they way they talk to people but no one ever belives the patient take care hun

      xxxxx

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    Not been to bed yet pain all over my skin burning, feeling really low at min 4.30 and sat ere can't sleep things going over and over in my mind can't relax , got go for medical on 22nd and I can't relax waited long time for this so it can't come quick enough just want it over and done with, just need cuddles my fella so distant at min, we not made love for months as he got diabetic and he has had a sore down there all to do with high levels of sugar , he doesn't cuddle in bed says I'm too hot he likes being cold so not much effection going on at min feel so alone every day seems like ground hog day 😂😂😂😂😂
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      O' precious Jackie, feel fir you right now..I'm in Oz....hope your feeling better really soon, hot water bottles or heat packs may help, such a long wait till the 22nd, hope you get the right meds to help, even if it's just something to relax a little until the Fibro meds kick in..stay strong, try and keep positive, I know when I have really bad times I try to think of people worse off than me. Like in a cancer ward or 3rd world countries...I know it's very hard to do whilst in pain ect, but it does help...feeling for you..:-) xx
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      Thanks Christine had a good cry feeling bit better it's my medical for P.i.P Hunny im in my meds they don't work so I just get my

      Own stuff magnizeum and vit d and I'm a anti depression and pregabalin but it's put to much weight in me so ive stopped taking it xxx thank you for your kind words merry Christmas everyone 💖💖💖💖

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      Merry Christmas to you too, and I hope you have an awesomely happy new year...stay strong..God bless..:-) xx

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