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I really do not know what to do here. I haven't had contact with my ex in over s month now, but last night he messaged me saying he wanted me to have sex with him, which I told him no, I don't want to. He mentally/emotionally abused me in the relationship and I have only just started to get myself back to a tiny bit of normality and he comes back into my life. He has also been accused of rape by a girl which went to court but he was found not guilty. I am NOT saying he has raped me etc, I am simply offering some information on he's precious accusation as it seems his actions are making that look fairly true. I don't know. Anyway, when I said no to sex, he then told me if I did not then he would expose me. I asked how he would do this and he sent a picture of his camera and told me that when we last had sex, he filmed it. I asked to see the actual proof; the video but he continues to still not show me. I know some people would say he probably doesn't have anything so leave it, but I know what he is like. He asked me once before if I would film it and I said no, he has also filmed be giving oral to him which I know he saved as I begged at the time for him to delete it. I was not happy it was filmed and saved at all. So my issue is that even if he doesn't have a video of us having sex, he does have a video at least that he could put out as he says he will. My parents do not know a thing; they know I saw him once but asked me to stop seeing him as they didn't like the sound of him. I then went behind their back and carried on seeing him as I am in a vulnerable state and clearly not thinking straight. I can't talk to my parents because they think I'm still a Virgin; that I haven't even kissed a guy let alone anything else so I can't tell them this. They would be extremely disappointed and disgusted that this has all happened. Where can I go to talk to someone about this? I feel stuck. I feel I have to have sex with him now as its my only option; he said if I stay quiet, everything will be ok and I'll get to delete the video. I'm scared because I don't want to have sex with him, but I don't want my family finding out either. I feel it's my only option and I need to talk to someone. Please reply, thankyou, Jodie x
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