Bilateral Hip Replacements?
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Hi,
First, let me say how happy I am to have found this forum! Everyone seems so supportive and helpful, and I already feel a little less alone.
I was hoping for some thoughts, or reading experiences of people who have been through something similar. Here's my situation. I'm a 44 year old female. Have had herniated discs in my lower back for years and last November, thought I herniated a new one. A few doctors and MRIs later, I found out that I have fractures in both hips, as well as labral tears on each side. The diagnosis is AVN (avascular necrosis, or osteonecrosis- "bone death"). Apparently it's atypical, as I fit into none of the risk factors. It just happened. In March, I had a Core Decompression on my right hip. I was told this is advised in someone my age, to stave off the need for a hip replacement as long as possible. After the 6 week recovery, I wasn't feeling any better, and another MRI showed no improvement. (Again, I'm atypical). Now I'm looking at hip replacements as my only alternative.
With all that, here are the questions I have for you lovely people:
- I desperately want to have both hips done at once, for a number of reasons- only 1 major surgery and all that goes with it, less time away from work, etc. How realistic an idea is this? How good an idea is this?
- I live alone, and don't have any family. I'm on the 2nd floor of a garden apartment. Does this information change the answer to the first questions?
- I suffer from chronic depression and am going through a major episode now. I know the physical and the emotional are linked and feeding off of one another, making both worse (another reason I want to get this all over with at once). Has anyone else dealt with depression while going through this? How did you manage?
- I am very overweight. I've been eating well and losing weight, but I've barely been able to walk for the better part of the year, so it's very slow going. Has anyone else gone through the surgery without being in optimal health prior? If so, what was the outcome?
- Finally (for now), I'm seeing the doc on Tuesday to talk about the next step, and I was wondering what sort of questions I should be asking. I don't have anyone to come with me, so I wanted to have a good list to go in with.
Please forgive the length of this post. And THANK YOU ALL so much for reading, and in advance for any response!
Laura
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ian97093 shmuggsy
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Interested to see what the other regular posters will say about it, but I dont think the surgeon will do them both at the same time for you.
Keep in touch Ian.
missmolar shmuggsy
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I am 16 days post bilateral THRs. I have no regrets having them done together. My surgeon said I was a good candidate for a bi as I didn't have a good hip to stand on. I am 53 active and fit. If there had been any complications with the first hip then they would not have completed the second on that occasion. All went well , blood loss was OK so it's all over with. I can walk around the house without crutches but use them outside. I have needed help with the TEDS but with planning have managed other things . Everyone is different in biological age, attitude and recovery capacity- it takes time. I know I would have been depressed if I had only had one side done as my life would have been on hold till the other side was completed. Have a good chat with your consultant. Good luck xx
ali2301 shmuggsy
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Obviously getting it all over and done with in one fell swoop would be the best option for anyone needing them both done but having had mine done one at a time, I have no idea how people manage getting bilateral hip replacements done. I find it hard to imagine doing it without at least one good leg to help keep me upright and to give me the strength to transfer. I just said the same to my hubby through the night when I had to wake him to help me get to the loo.
I'm also carrying a few extra pounds and honestly don't think I could have done it both at the same time. I would be surprised if your surgeon agreed to it anyway tbh.
I hope it goes well for you, whichever path you end up taking. It really is so worth it to be pain free and so many people give commented on how well I walk just after having one done, I can't wait to see the difference when they are both healed. I also have had decompression surgery on my spine and I'm not quite walking upright after that but this second new hip should help with that too.
Keep us posted with how things are going.
Take care.
Ali xx
Summertime36 shmuggsy
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i am 6 weeks on from a bilateral hip replacement. I am delighted that they were done together. I would have hated having to go back in to go through the op again. It was definitely the right choice for me but everyone is different.
I am really sorry to hear of your problems with weight and depression. I am not a surgeon so this is only my opinion but I am sure that a surgeon would only carry out a bilateral replacement if they were happy with your general state of health. I was told that because of my age (53) and the fact that I was very fit and healthy that they were comfortable with doing both at the same time.
As with any operation it is not just the physical aspect of getting well but also the mental one because it really is a major operation.
Your consultantant will guide you through the process to make sure that your care is tailored to your individual circumstances.
Please take care of yourself and let us know how you are doing. Never feel alone because there is lots of kind support on offer via the forum. Xx
pauline85484 shmuggsy
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I just want to send all good wishes to you I can relate to a bit of yours, yes Im overweight and the change of lifestyle brought about through pain (no dancing, walking and the general struggle to keep job up etc ) has caused anxiety and depression for sure, getting better in this dept as get impatient having to pace things, but now a bit more acceptin, I was a fit 60, but still no sigh of being offered THR in fact I ve come back from hospital to loose weight, do pilates, before going back in Jan, now into day 3 of tackiling 3 stones!!
I expect it is the way we think that determines if prefer one hip at a time but fully appreciate being on own as paints a different picture, think what Id do with that is find out everything how you will function initially after both being done together this way you can make informed decision, if its doable (even a convalescent place for short time ) you will regain your freedom and life back sooner
please keep in touch yes we are in the right place for sure
Love and light pauline xxx
pauline85484 shmuggsy
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i know what you mean Laura I want to loose weight and be as fit as poss before op, only makes sense, yes its harder when not as active, Im riding bike - lol great once on it but the getting on and off a nightmare especially if short notice, eek
A SILLY part of me also hopes that the pain will magically go away when all the wieght is taken off the joints . . . .
pauline85484 shmuggsy
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Regarding the mental bit we will cope, will do it and take it as it comes, just like all these other nice folk here, no need to fret because we will, this is the anxiety speaking up, just ignore that one!
alice85142 shmuggsy
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Marvelous.
Bunty
pauline85484 shmuggsy
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renee01952 shmuggsy
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Welcome to this wonderful Hippies family -- as you can see, we share our personal stories, give tips, support and unconditional love ...
Ultimately, it will be you who has to make the decision and this is a tough one -
Maybe it is best to have your surgeon inform you when you see him/her ...
it might be that your physical condition does not qualify for bilateral surgery ... don;t worry about the stairs - after surgery you will get physical therapy in the hospital and not discharged before you can walk up/down stairs --
Are you being treated and on medication for your depression?
just write the questions you might have down as they come up and take the list with you ... and you can always come here, of course ...
shmuggsy, it takes a lot of courage to make this step ... so take a deep breath and be proud of yourself that you are taking charge - you are not alone,remember that -
big warm hug
renee
kaye04758 shmuggsy
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good luck.
kaye