Bilateral (simultaneous) anterior approach thp . . . I'm 34.
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Hi, I was just scheduled for surgery on June 19th. I have a skeletal dysplasia. As a result, my hips are a mess; both need to be replaced. I'm a mom of four boys, a kindergarten teacher, and an active-duty military spouse. I figured one recovery would be better, especially because I have summers off, and my husband could very easily be deployed at my next opportunity. I really am an otherwise healthy, active person. It just hit me, though, how scary the whole thing is. Has anyone else been through this, regardless of age? What am I in for? How long do you think I'll be down? School begins again late August; will I be healed enough to endure it? Any thoughts will be helpful, so thank you in advance.
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t3chiman jgmurrayaf
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"...just hit me, though, how scary the whole thing is. Has anyone else been through this, regardless of age? What am I in for? How long do you think I'll be down? School begins again late August; will I be healed enough to endure it?..."
Hi Jgmurrayaf-
You have bitten off a lot, and are right to be concerned. Your sunny-day scenario at this point has you undergoing major surgery to weight-bearing joints. Bilateral. Simultaneous. (!) The procedure will leave you exhausted for weeks. You will not be able to take care of anyone--you will be the one needing care. Figure a couple of weeks of full-time; a couple of months of part-time, nursing. Slowly and gradually, your physical therapist will get you up and around. At first, a few minutes will be all you can bear. With a chair or walker, you can extend your active time, according to what you can tolerate.
As for pain, it depends. The anesthesia folks are great these days; surgery itself won't be so bad. If you take your post-op pain meds (Do it. Don't be a hero. It's part of your treatment.), day-to-day pain will be tolerable; night-time will be rough for a while.
You will need help taking care of your family this Summer. A live-in cook/housekeeper for a month would be a luxury I realize. Whatever you can afford, do it.
As for returning to work, I would try to take the remainder of 2018 off. Seriously. Eight weeks from major surgery to a roomful of 5 year olds--hate to contemplate. Late August will see you able to take care of yourself, and stay awake for 4 hours at a stretch. Nap, repeat. Stay away from sources of frustration and contagion, at least until November. At that juncture, may as well wait for the 2019 session.
Not trying to be gloom-and-doomish about this. Just that this is your chance, your one chance, really, at repairing a lifetime of damaged hips, odd walking, twisted spine, who-knows-whatelse. You gotta plan for an extended, and full, recovery. Rushing things would be shortchanging yourself and those who depend on you.
Good luck. Come Christmas time, hope to get a fine report from you.
RichardKen jgmurrayaf
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In my opinion you will be safer if you go for the posterior approach rather than one of the alternatives. It is very well tried and tested with no limitations for the surgeon.
Good luck. Richard
AlexandriaGizmo jgmurrayaf
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Hi I think your awesome, at least you will only have to go through it once and because your young fit and healthy it will be a breeze, ok so that's the BS out the way LOL but seriously theirs loads on here who do the same as you say their glad they went that way, don't worry about how soon you can get back to work just concentrate on recovering at your own speed not someone elses, PS the awesome bit is totally true
faye4342 jgmurrayaf
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Get the advice of a good surgeon who has double hip replacements at same time.
jimbone jgmurrayaf
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jgmurrayaf-
I'm waiting to schedule surgery myself and the surgeon doesn't do bilateral preferring to space them out several weeks but 40% of his THR patients have both hips done. There was a gentleman here earlier this year, in his mid 60s, an avid surfer who had bilateral THR and in our conversations recommended it as the fastest course for recovery, as in, just get them done. In most ways it makes sense to me but isn't an option. Scary? Yeah, to me at least, but I know at this point there is no avoiding it as I'm sure is the case with you. Rockerman, a forum user, has some very good links for pre and post op surgical preparations if you can locate them they will help orient you. Your youth may well be one of your best allies- you'll tend to heal faster. Primary consideration for most informed people considering this procedure is the skill and experience of the surgeon. You want someone with a minimum of 250 THR surgeries under their belt with a very good success rate and minimal complications post surgery. Second consideration is surgical approach- lots of opinions on that subject, but most surgeons I've researched indicate it is the skill of the surgeon that makes any particular approach successful. This forum can be daunting- the majority of contributors are people with surgical complications that gives a negative impression of the surgery, however there are many positive stories as well and a wealth of information from those who have undergone THR for better or for worse. Statistically THR is considered the most successful major orthopedic surgery being done these days. Best wishes and hope you find the site helpful.
Jim
ptolemy jgmurrayaf
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RichardKen ptolemy
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Dear Ptolemy
I completely agree with you but would just like to add that a little bit of good luck helps too!
I sometimes get a wee bit concerned when people, not you I hasten to add post their experiences telling others what to expect as regards to their recovery.
Guys we are all different with different expectations, different bodies, different ages, very different levels of fitness, different medical histories, men and women, so please just say that this was MY experience. To do otherwise can set someone's expectations unrealistically low or high which is not helpful to anyone.
Cheers, Richard
ptolemy RichardKen
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You are absolutely right. I felt that I was not doing so well as these people who left hospital a couple of hours after the op and then were cooking dinner that night and driving their car the following day. I did ask one person how they managed to leave hospital in two hours as I was still numb from my spinal and to actually leave the hospital that fast seemed unbelievable. They never actually replied.
On the the other hand saying how ill you felt and how much pain you are in for months after does not help people before their op. Probably better to look on the bright side but to not overdo it.
RichardKen ptolemy
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Dear Ptolemy
Thanks for that but perhaps I did not express myself sufficiently clearly<BG>.
What concerns me is that some members, with the very best of intensions recounting their recovery as an authorative statement of what is the norm, when it is simply an account of their own experience.
When I relate how my recoveries have been I take great care to stress that it is simply an account of my recovery experience and no more or less than that.
All the best. Richard
ptolemy RichardKen
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I agree. The aim of these discussions is to say what happened to us and what worked and did not work for us not to tell others what they should or should not be doing.
t3chiman ptolemy
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"...say what happened to us and what worked and did not work for us not to tell others what they should or should not be doing..."
Of course. This is patient.info, not professional_medical.advice. Problem is, the original poster has, invariably, already talked with his/her expert professional, and has been told: "Well, every case is different. I can't say how your experience will be." This is literally true. Every case is different. That's why they call them cases. But it's a bit dishonest (They're experts, after all), and it is singularly unhelpful to the poor patient who, desperate for guidance, asks a community of well-meaning strangers simple questions like: Will it hurt? How long will I be off work? What about my children?
At the head of every topic on this, and most other, medical advice boards, is the disclaimer: For information only. For real, actionable, advice, consult a professional in the field.
It's superfluous to point out this obvious fact over and over. [Note to posters: bonesmart is nasty on this point. You will become a nonperson without warning. You can guess how I know this...]
judith12644 jgmurrayaf
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bridget32982 jgmurrayaf
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jim100 jgmurrayaf
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Hello jgmurrayaf,
I had both of mine done at the same time 11/15/16. All went well and I'm doing fine. As some have said, everyone's recuperation is different. I'm sure you've seen that by reading the posts on this wonderful website. The bilateral was right for me. I was 51 years old at the time. I still need to work for another 15 years or so. I could not afford to do it in the more common two stages that most people do, and my doctor even recommended it.. For me the actual operation was not that big a deal. The pain levels were quite manageable. I was on my feet the next day. I didn't have any severe complications. The biggest being that I think I have acetabular impingement on my left hip replacement. It causes discomfort in certain circumstances, but nothing like the arthritis pain I had before the operation. My wife stayed home to help for a month, but she could have probably went back to work after two weeks. It took me about a month to go from a walker to crutches, to walking unassisted. However, I didn't feel strong enough to go back to work for 4 months, and I went back slowly. I gradually picked up the pace and was back to "normal" after 8 or 10 months. I still am slower than before the operation, but a attribute some of that to getting older
. I'm still noticing gradual improvement, 18 months later.
In my opinion, your age is a big plus. If you are in good shape and, most importantly, you have the right attitude you will probably recuperate rather quickly. With that said, you will need a lot of help for the first couple of months. With such an active family, i'm sure it takes a lot of energy and everyone depends on you. You'll have to depend on others for at least a few months, maybe even more. And going back to work after two months could be a tall order, but everything depends on your individual recovery. Once you are past the critical first stages, I really think you will be glad you did it.
If I can answer any questions please let me know. I wish you the best of luck!
Jim