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Where to start. I work with a man who suffers from bipolar. We've been talking closely, and romantically for about 5 months. Pretty much daily. He was lovely, kind, funny, caring, a really decent guy, finally!! He asked me to go out for drinks with him and we were going to arrange it. He even encouraged me to get a new role in the firm in the same team as him which is a role I had been gearing up towards. I got the job, he was really happy. In February he became distant. Messaged less and didn't mention the date. Referred to me as a former friend on some occasions. He admitted depressed feelings on a couple of occasions, saying life would always be hard. 2 weeks ago I started my new role in the same team. He seemed more upbeat but different..... He's very flirty with the girls, they are married. He talks about sex. He talks about who is hot in the office. He does not stop talking, humming, joking. Seems to be sat on his phone all day watching videos or messaging. He's took a loan for a motorbike out, and is buying a new TV. Hes rude to me, called me a psycho a couple of times. But then he will message early in the morning or at night like he cares. My phone died one night and when I charged it I had 37 messages saying are you there, are you OK, are you upset etc
Friday was the last straw. I had to work 8 hours where he did not stop talking. To everyone but me. He commented about a girl he had a dream about in the office. He had messaged one girl to save him a seat in the office next to her. She's married with a child. He was emailing another as I saw the email on her screen. I was sat next to her. He was purposely ignoring me and playing mind games. After work I checked his Instagram and he started following the girl from work. He follows a number of scantily clad porn star style women on there which I wouldn't normally be bothered about but coupled with his behaviour I got angry and blocked his instagram. I calmed a few hours later. I unblocked him but realised he had found a way to block me while he was blocked. He hasn't blocked me on whatsapp. I'm ashamed, hurt, confused. I thought I'd found the perfect guy and I helped him through the depressed bit, picked him up when he felt down. He said I was amazing, kind, beautiful, smart. Now I'm nothing. Heartbroken and now have to work with him 😢
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