Blowtorch leg pain after prolapse bladder surgery

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After reading & watching information videos about my upcoming surgery, thought I was prepared....so wrong. And I didn't get any information from my DR. that was more than ok see you then. My first waking in post-op I had horrible aching in buttocks. My catheter was removed after 4 1/2 hrs, but I was in so much discomfort I couldn't urinate. So feeling the "bums rush" from the nurse, she hurriedly put a catheter back in, instructing my husband how to remove it at the hotel, because we live 3 1/2 hrs away, marking where to cut & giving him scissors...? The next morning he removed it (my hero), but I was shaking so violently & in so much pain, I couldn't pee, my bladder painfully full, we rushed to Dr.s office where they performed an ultrasound & re-cathed me. All the while I'm shaking with pain, he asks if I'm running a fever, no? But a combination of Tylenol & Ibuprophen should be fine. My surgery was on a WED, we were supposed to drive home by FRI, extending hotel stay til MONDAY possibly WED. On FRI my husband begged me to take the Vicodin he had with him, I felt like a bad patient, not following my Dr.s wishes, what about PATIENT CARE!? After the second dose, I could relax a little, still horrible trying to get out of bed. But keeping 1 pill every 4- 5 hrs in my system, allowed me the ability and desire to get out of bed 3 times the next day, and shuffle around the hotel room. My husband was surgically treated by the same Urologist 17 yrs before, and was given pain meds, no issues. I don't know if this is solely a failure of our "new" healthcare system, or the forced changes in how our physicians treat us. I'm pretty sure a family member, senator or congresswoman, would not be left with Tylenol and Ibuprophen as their only pain reliever when in that much pain. We use to rely on professional common sense, patient by patient needs. It's inhumane to have the ability to treat, but instead are punished because of those that mis-used and/or profitted from, these pain relievers. This is not to scare you if you're facing the same surgery, but may be helpful in knowing what you could experience...and did I mention the fish hook sensation in your vagina along with the blowtorch? Don't expect to be sitting much, so the 3 1/2 hr drive home terrifies me. No matter your politics, common sense in individual patient care must prevail, afterall we are the great United States....right?

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  • Posted

    im sorry to hear about your unpleasant

    experience ...

    i had a vaginally rectocele done 2 years ago

    but i didnt

    find the experience to bad at all ...

    but unfortunatley with me my rectocele

    has failed and returned and i honestly

    don t think i can go through all that surgery

    again at 69 ... i have to live with my bowel

    and bladder problems once again , im so

    upset as it took so much courage for me to

    have the surgery and then weeks of healing.

    I do hope in time you will benefit from all your surgery and cross my fingers for you

    that all stays good for you x

  • Posted

    they would not do this in UK hun.

    sounds odd why they would instruct yiur husband to remove your catherta for you ?

    as for the drive home I had my surgery 4 hours away due to my choice if consultant but I didn't have any issues afterwards so wS able to sit okay ish lol.

    please return to your surgeon asap if yiur in a lot of pain.x

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    I don't know what state you're in, but i was told in the state where I live you have to out right tell them you need a prescription for pain, now. They should give you something. My Dr. did give me a script and when my pain continued I was able to get a refill, then step down to a middle strength. I didn't know before my surgery, and Dr. didn't mention it, but I found out later that people with peripheral nerve and other pain, like migraines, fibro, etc. will often not tolerate the surgery as well, so I wonder if that's why theres a big difference between people's pain experiences.

    Call your doctor's number and get patched through and get help.

    Are you saying you went to a urologist, instead of a urogynecologist?

    My Dr is a gynecologist that specializes in pelvic surgeries and let me have a 2 day stay in the hospital with strong meds. Even still, when i got home I thought I wasn't going to be able to get through recovery i was in so much pain. I broke down sobbing. Once you make it home rest as much as possible for the first four weeks and slowly walk as much as you can tolerate without increasing your pain. Get ducosate sodium and miralax and take them now and keep taking them for the first...until you don't feel like you need them. You might also need to throw in a bottle of magnesium citrate initially, so have it on hand.

    I had a sacrospinous ligament fixation and i still get bad pain down my leg sometimes, especially in relation to a bowel movement.

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