body image issues
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I know I shouldn't have looked but had to when applying cream. So different down there.. Not sure what I expected but guess not what I saw. Cried myself to sleep and thought about telling my hubby he would be better off without me as felt so un wonanly. Ladies have others felt like ne? Did you find your partner didn't notice? Or if they did did it affect your relationship.
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SMM103 tilley49386
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I did not look again until about week 6 and although there has been some improvement I was still upset and shocked tbh. I really had not considered it would be so disfigured down there. I don’t feel that they considered the aesthetics when stitching me back up.
Matron has said not to look again for at least another 4 weeks or so. I am avoiding taking a look and hoping for the best. I am at a loss as to what to do after that point if it is still so disfigured?
At 7 weeks post op I don't know the long term impact on our relationship. That said I have a really supportive husband and we will just have to work through this together somehow.
How far along with your recovery are you Tilley? Look back at previous posts Matron does tell us off for looking down there too soon. Hopefully things will improve as we heal xxx
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