Can anybody please help me I am at my wits end
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I cannot seem to get any help my story is :: I moved into my council house 12 years ago February 2018 coming up since living here I have been so so poorly but put it down to the fact me and my son had a previous property burned Down then my father committed suicide then I got into a relationship with the father of my daughter who beat and controlled me then say ten years on I have suffered with sinus problems ear head and balance problems to many to mention I got a skin disorder I’m being tested for chronic physical urticaria I got about 7 years ago I ended up putting up with my sinus problem because I thought it was caused by my abusive relationship and was embarrassed by it but the other week it got to much to bear so ended up in a and e someone mentioned mold to me that I ended up googling and I ticked every single box I had a lad mold test done that came back as very dangerous there was 12 different mold spores found in the air in my bedroom I am currently awaiting an operation next saturday I have had a cat scan and Mra scan and am having a debribment done then corrective cosmetic surgery I haven’t slept in my bedroom for over a month now and have slept in my sofa but have not once had my skin disorder I have Been telling the council for years about the damp in my bedroom that seems to come from an old chimney I don’t have any air vents in my room and I have also been that depressed I have tried to take my life on numerous occasions threw the stress of it I have no energy left in me to fight the council as I feel it is a very hard thing to do but don’t see why they should get away with something I have complained to them for years over the toxic mold has completely eaten the inside of my face away and I am so scared of my future I do think me not being here will be a lot easier can anybody help me please
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jim76414 catherine_84356
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Hi Catherine. First well done for posting. A really positive step to help channel the frustration and anger you understandably feel. After your operation you are going to feel so much more positive, because it will show you there are people out there who care about you and your future, and importantly want to help you get better.
Perhaps your doc/surgeon can then have a quiet word with someone receptive at the council and start to help you to sort things out.Also the fact that you went for the scans shows me that you still have plenty fight in you, and that's tremendous.
Of course you have a future, So even if you get down, don't get down on yourself, it's not your fault.
Also the internet is a wonderful source of imaginative solutions and even if the council remain blind, I'm sure that a friend or relative, or perhaps who knows someone you meet in hospital even, will help you to fight the mold or maybe even to find somewhere else temporarily. Meanwhile it's good that you have the sofa (I slept on a sofa for months recently as I was going through problems in my home and life). Sofa will for sure keep the nasties away!
I hope the op starts to sort things out for you and I'm sure you'll actually come home able and ready for a fresh start and ready to fight if need be but to work positively to solutions.
Meanwhile Catherine, keep us posted - and don't try anything daft, you are as precious as anyone else, and have a right to be heard and helped. Good luck and thoughts beside you tonight and for your op. x
jim76414
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Hi Catherine. Hope the op went well. Often wonder how it's going with you. Even if it is just to tell me to go away, that's fine,
but would love to know you're ok.