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can i stop my partners son seeing my baby?

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leona_53133
leona_53133

me and my partner have been together 3 year and we both have children from previous relationships. I am 24 week pregnant and I am growing more and more concerned about letting my partners 6 year old son near my new born .

my son is the same age and although I don't have any concerns with him, the other is really causing a problem.

my partners son is 6 years old and is currently under social services because of his mother. he comes across that there's something not quiet right, very disturbed and on a lot of occasions very abusive to myself and others. I have voiced my concerns a lot and feel nothing will come from it. is there anything I can do to stop him from seeing my new born ?

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  • Roseann
    Roseann

    Posted

    This is something that you and your partner need to talk through. If you feel that your newborn will be at risk from your partner's son then it is your duty as a mother to protect your baby. This will be easier if your partner is in agreement of course.

    Your new baby will not be at risk from being seen by your son's partner, but may be at risk if left unsupervised with him. Your job is to ensure that your partner's son and the baby are always fully supervised at all times if you think there is some risk to your baby. The six year old is also a child and needs sympathy and understanding. Hopefully social services can help you all in ensuring that your baby is safe and also in ensuring that your partner's son gets the help he needs.

    Hope all goes well.

  • trex
    trex

    Posted

    speak to social services if you get no outome
  • esther_de
    esther_de

    Posted

    I agree with Roseann's comment.

    Your partner's son may also be feeling anxiety about the birth of the baby as it he could believe he is being 'replaced' by the baby. Perhaps you could try to spend more time with both boys to encourage bonding between the three of you. Talking and getting him involved with the pregnancy will also help him accept the baby.

    Your partner's son is only 6 and is still developing emotionally. He just may need a lot more support and attention to be able to reconnect and trust again.

    Do keep social services informed of your situation at all times and trust your mother's instincts!!

    All the best

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