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Can't get Penis to go inside me after years of trying?

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MikuMiku
MikuMiku

I've tried so hard all my life both with men I've really fancied and a few I have not. We have tried loads of lube, and up to 3 hours of foreplay. I've finally found a guy I really like. We've been together almost a year, but STILL cannot get his penis in me. It just will NOT go in. I've never been able to do it, ever and I am getting old now and don't understand why. I've had STD tests and smear and always had good results. 

How do people accidentally get pregnant? And how do younger people do this? It is SO difficult. The most I've managed is one guy years ago got the head in but it hurt like hell n slipped straight back out. Now  even just that won't go in... it's really frustrating every night we try and can't get it in at all. How does ANYBODY do this?

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