Can't Handle Perimenopause Symptoms Anymore!!!

Hi Debbie, no it's not going to be like that all the time I guarantee you it does get better, I have been it as long as you have I had most of those symptoms like you...iam better but not completely out the woods,they were times I could of scream for England and angry about the way I was feeling I just hated the hot/cold feeling insomnia and drunk in the head very over welming I did not want to do anything in the house everything was such and effort, I hardly use to go out  but iam going now...I still can't go very far and mix with people but trying all I can 

when I started to go through this at 50 to how I'm feeling right now is much better then that time, most symptoms calm down now nicely but I must say to you that I'm still transitioning into menopause my FSH is 100 which is high and menopsal but still waiting for periods to end they have been a night mare but I'm very much irregular, until I reach the 12 mark I can't speak for that time I dread it as I heard people say it hits you then..but just have to wait and see

As for you it will get better always say a prayer and ask God for help he does listen, I get on my knees and talk to him when things were getting me down so please do what you can for yourself try not to worry as things can only get better with time God bless you.

Hi I became unwell about 3 years ago after months of pain falling over no strength I went to.doctor blood tests were done came back with pernious anima iron anima very low B12 very very low vit D i was given a course of B12 jabs which I have to have for life every 10 weeks which last for a couple of weeks take natural iron as the onedoctor gave me just made me fill I'll had a course of folic acid still felt I'll my periods were so bad heavy clots couldn't leave the house for days bleeding so bad I had a blood test and was told I was in peri menopause periods stopped not had one since April 2016 I was still in well every part of my body hurt even to the touch still dose I was told the in the summer of last year I have fibromgaila I suffer with chest pains gastric problems over all pain feel down I got get what I'm saying most of the time I got get most things I don't fall to sleep till 5 6 in morning then I sleep in I never sleep more then 6 hours I'm sick of feeling I'll tired and I'm pain bed time is a mission lay down pain starts hot sweats so I drink then I'm up and down to toilet it gose in all night I love in pain killers more at night then in the day weight gain spend my life in pjs no intreast in any thing at all is this meno pause or Peru memo pause if still peri memo pause dose the meno pause get worse then this it about be called mad o pause coz I feel crazy don't like going to doctors cause they make you think it's all in your head please there has to be ladies out there going thro this advice would be great

Hi debbie, all I could tell you it will get better with time I had those symptoms you had at the beginning of 50 years old but with time it started to feel better at 54 years old I'm still going through it because periods still coming here and there but I know how you feel, one day you will find that symptoms will calm down and give you a break it won't go on for ever I promise always remember nothing last for ever in anyone's life...be kind to yourself and take care God bless.

Dear Debbie,

I totally understand how you feel! I am exactly the same. I thought my forties will be awesome, I'm 43 and perimenopausal for at least 1 year now. It has been terrible. I am like you eating well, taking supplements, exercising. The anxiety, panic attracts, heart palpitations, etc are just terrible. Now my breast hurts and I'm so done with this.

You are not alone, I truly hope you will find the way to get your life back. I'm desperately trying to find mine.

Take care, hugs

Magda

Debbie, this is an old post, but I know how you feel. My quality of life is zero. I stay anxious almost all the time. I'm nauseous everyday or in pain from my pelvic area. Has anything helped you recently?

Hi. Debbie....

I am new to this, I agree to what you are saying I am in perimenpause I don't know how long I been through it. But last year in Oct things hit me stomach problems lost weight, No appetite,dizziness unbalance, craving for sweet, I was getting shortness of breath. Please somebody tell me something

H Debbie,let me tell you I been through the same thing few years ago..and I cried because I couldn't stand how I feel I couldn't sleep either and during this time my mum was terminally ill and looking after her was stressful and it was tough when she died I ask my Dr for something to keep me calm at the funeral and he gave me nothing so I had to sit through it nervous and jumpy forcing myself to sit down and just to get through it..I'm better now but still have some symptoms like waking up frighten

You will get better with time prayer on your knees God will answer I always include him daily you will be fine God bless.

Just reading your post and boy it’s the exact same thing I’m going through .... NO LIFE !!!!

Like a zombie all the time and am mainly at home now as no energy to go out and do things. 

Please tell me it got better for you I’ve bern really bad for 2 months now and it’s the WORST thing in the world ! 

Oh Debbie, I hear ya! It could be my story that you are telling. We'll be 48 in January. I am in peri since 7-8 years now and so tired of it. Dizzy basically ever since, migraines, sometimes with aura. Head pressure non stop. My sight blurry constantly and cannot focus with eyes.. Like one eye feeling different than the other. Anxiety, panic attacks, tingly feeling in face, scalp, arms. Sometimes can't think straight. Pure horror, I tell you! Quality of life? What is that? I wish I could just talk to you. I've done so much research and am a geriatric nurse. I'm back in school to be a psychotherapist. Always loved psychology, but part of the reason might just be my pen desperation. Please write back, Debbie. You are not alone! You are not going insane (unless we all are!) sending you strength, hope and much love, Bina