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Cant Ejaculate when with girfriend

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jordanrcoole
jordanrcoole

I can ejaculate when having a Wank but when with girlfriend i just cant seem to ejaculate at all we have tried everything has anyone else got this problem as i think i have delayed ejaculation and have any tips on how to solve this smile

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  • simonthethird
    simonthethird jordanrcoole

    Posted

    I suspect you are right - delayed [or retarded] ejaculation.  You can look it up on google etc.

    In my view caused by psycological things - heaven knows what ...

    Is this a new g/f?   It probably will improve in time but are you - underlying - worried about sex with a partner in any way?  What were you told when growing up?  "Sex only within marraige"?  Any religious teaching that conflicts with sex with a g/f? 

    Are you worried perhaps about possible pregnancy?  Is contraception 100% at this stage? 

    Talking frankly with your g/f explaining that this seems a change - please do not consider it too much a problem ...

    • jordanrcoole
      jordanrcoole simonthethird

      Posted

      Im just a normal person who loves sex and ive been going with her 8 Months and im really comfortable  and layed back when having sex but im worried like how would i be able to have kids in near future. 
  • Islay
    Islay jordanrcoole

    Posted

    It's probably a mental/emotional issue rather than physical.- and not uncommon.

    Have you tried asking your girlfriend to masturbate you first and bring you near to climax before penetrating her? This has worked for me in the past. The next time, you probably won't need that stimulus!

    • jordanrcoole
      jordanrcoole Islay

      Posted

      Yeah we tried but i judt cant seem to get near the point were i need to cum hmmm its stressing not being able to ejaculate.
    • Islay
      Islay jordanrcoole

      Posted

      It seems to me that your problem is psychological, Jordan. But just a couple more questions...

      Are you intact or circumcised? And when you masturbate on your own, does it take long before you climax?

    • jordanrcoole
      jordanrcoole Islay

      Posted

      When im masturbating on my own it only takes couple of minutes 
    • Islay
      Islay jordanrcoole

      Posted

      Then we're back again to it being a mental issue when you're with your girlfriend. I wish I could be of more help to you, but there's every chance you will suddenly find it works out well for both of you! lol
    • jordanrcoole
      jordanrcoole Islay

      Posted

      Thanks anyways and earlier when i was wirh her i was producing precum but i just cant cum at all when with her like i can feel it all bulding up but it wont come out.
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