Constant sleep paralysis for over 6 months - Report and Advice
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Hello there,
I´ve been having sleep paralysis for my whole life, since I was a small child. I´m 22 now.
Progressively, it´s been getting much worse, to the point where about 6 months ago I started getting it absolutely every night. This trend has continued until today and I´ve exhausted my attempts to make this go away. I just know that it will happen every night and sometimes I end up having to sleep 1h earlier just so I can get enough sleep. I get on average 2-4 SP events a night.
I am fully capable of waking myself up and I´m not at all terrified or worried about the events themselves. It´s much more about the nuisance and the inconvenience of losing 1h of sleep every night.
Among the things I´ve tried (to no avail), are:
- Sleeping on my sides and stomach (I never sleep on my back as it certainly triggers the SP)
- Meditating
- No sports or activites before sleeping (at least 3h)
- Changed diet and drinking a lot or no water
- Reducing screen usage or only using red light on the computer
- Sleeping in a different bed and changing bed orientation
- Sleep hygiene (only going to bedroom to sleep, dimming lights and using red light on PC monitor)
- Blinking a lot before going to sleep (kind of silly but shows how much I´ve already tried)
None of these have had any significant effects to reduce the occurence of SP for me. I´ve also found the following activities are somewhat related to SP and increase the frequency with which it occurs:
- Laying down before going to sleep (ie: watching TV while laying down)
- Having a very inactive day (ie: sitting on front of computer or not doing much)
- Watching a bright monitor or phone screen immediately before going to bed
- Travelling and doing a lot of physical activites during the day seems to decrease the occurence of SP for me. I raraley get it if I spend a week away with friends (but it has happened), for instance.
- Spending a lot of time outdoors also seems to somehow diminish the events.
I have an office job right now and spending 10h a day outdoors or doing lots of physical activities is not a realistic solution to this problem.
I leave this report here for people having this problem as well and I hope that someone could shed some light on this matter. Researching online has brought a wide range of solutions which haven´t proven to be effective to me at all. Has someone else experienced SP to this extent and, if so, what could be done to make this go away?
Thank you.
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lily65668 edson16191
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I totally sympathise, Edson, as someone who's had SP for 50 years. When I was your age I often went through phases of multiple episodes per night.
Interesting that yours started in childhood. I suspect mine probably did too, as I had memories from early childhood of "flying" all around the house, which ties in with the apparent "out-of-body" experiences people like us sometimes get. However, I didn't perceive it as SP then, and just took it for real (and enjoyed it!) I think it must have stopped around the time I started school, but then re-surfaced in a lesser form around the time of puberty. For a couple of years I used to get those dreams where you're suddenly being sucked backwards at high speed, with a sinking feeling in your stomach. I still didn't perceive this as SP though.
The thing only kicked off for real when I was 23 and in the run-up to my nur sing finals. I started getting the painful tactile hallucinations that I still have to this day. It utterly terrified me, as I had no idea what it was. No internet in 1967 and they didn't teach us about this kind of thing in our training. Not sure how I got through my finals, but I somehow managed to pass. Fortunately the hospital where I trained had a big neuro unit, and they let me do my intern year there, taking their specialist course. It was only then that I found a single paragraph in a neurological textbook that described it.
Fast forward to the present, I still get it, but only a few times a month now. I think it peaked in my late 20s, when I never got through a single night without it, and started to decline very slowly after that. I had another small peak around menopause, but you sound like a guy so you won't have that problem. I've spoken to hundreds of other SP sufferers on-line and they all report a similar progression.
You seem to have covered pretty much all of the triggers, except for my main one, which is overheating in the night. That will absolutely guarantee multiple attacks for me. I agree about sleeping too much, or not getting sufficiently tired. Afternoon naps are particularly bad for me.
There is just one more, that seems to affect some people. That's sleeping too close to overhead high-tension lines or any kind of electronic or electrical switching devices. Not surprising, given that the brain functions via electrical impulses. I always noticed my attacks were more frequent, and the hallucinations more severe, when sleeping in my late mother's house, which was about 20 yards from overhead lines. I was interested to hear that you don't get it when sleeping away from home, which makes me wonder whether there's something in your home environment that's setting it off. My all-time worst night happened quite late in life, in my early 50s, long after I'd stopped getting frequent attacks. On a business trip, I'd checked into my hotel room late one night to find the curtains already drawn, and gone straight to bed without looking out. The attacks started the minute I fell asleep, and continued back-to-back till I finally gave up trying to sleep around 6am. When I opened the curtains of my 20th-floor room, I found myself looking at the roof of a building just across the narrow street, that was on a level with my floor. It was covered with a huge array of masts and satellite dishes.
Finally, I'm assuming that you've eliminated smoking weed, especially in the evening. I've never used the stuff, but I know it can trigger severe SP. I have to be a bit careful with alcohol late in the evening, but I think that's mainly because I overheat if I drink too much. The only other thing that consistently affects me is stress.
Not sure what to suggest, unless the above has given you any further ideas about triggers. I just waited it out. There is one surefire way to stop SP attacks, and that's to take antidepressants, especially the older tricyclic kind like amitriptyline. They work by suppressing REM sleep, which is the phase from which SP arises, as I'm sure you know. However, they don't cure the condition, only suppress it. The minute you stop the medication the SP returns. It depends on whether you're happy to spend the rest of your life on this medication, with all its side-effects. I wasn't.
Have you tried asking family members if they have it and, if so, how they cope with it? SP is strongly hereditary, though it always has to start somewhere of course. I mention this because genetically similar people may have similar SP triggers. My father, at least one of his siblings and my grandmother all had it. My father had particularly terrifying hallucinations affecting all his senses, including smell. Unfortunately I didn't find this out till shortly before he died, 20 years after my episodes started. My mother had forbidden him to tell me as she thought it was a sign of insanity in the family! Still, things have moved on since those days, and you might well find family members willing to talk about their experiences and remedies, if any.
Sorry I couldn't be more helpful. I hope you can somehow find a way to manage this annoying condition.
edson16191 lily65668
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Lily, thank you very much for sharing your experience with SP.
A few points about what you said:
- Afternoon naps really do suck (I get SP during the nap and later at night)
- Never really thought about the overheating part, might be worth checking out
- Alcohol seems to completely cure my SP. I´ve never had an event while drunk.
- Yeah, antidepressants aren´t worth taking, in my opinion. Seems like they cause too many side-effects and the dependency on them doesn´t pay off.
- My father has had SP in the past, from what I read around the internet it really seems to be hereditary.
- I live in an apartment far away from any immediate cables, so I´m not sure that high tension is related.
What puzzles me the most is how little information there really is available. There are an infinity of posts about lucid dreaming, but very little about the actual SP condition and research on how to cure it.
Once again, thank you for sharing your knowledge and I hope you never experience this again.
lily65668 edson16191
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Hi Edson,
Something else that just came to mind, though I'm sure you're aware of it. When you have an episode during the night, don't let yourself get sucked back into sleep immediately on waking - though I realise that's easier said than done. Sit up, have a drink of water, maybe get out of bed for a minute. Waking up properly will reduce the chances of a subsequent attack, even if at first sight it seems likely to disturb your sleep even more.
When referring to electromagnetic triggers, I didn't mean exclusively high-tension cables. That was just an example, ditto the story about masts and antennae. There could be other influences in your apartment. Some sources even mention geomagnetic triggers, such as underground running water, certain rock types etc.
There's no point in getting frustrated about the lack of research. There's a terrible culture of ridicule in the scientific establishment, especially the medical arm, and SP has picked up too many dubious connotations for medical scientists to risk their credibility. There are still people who think it's down to demonic possession or other such nonsense and, as I'm sure you know, it was almost entirely responsible for the rash of alien abduction stories in the 80s and 90s. (Google Whitley Strieber and Budd Hopkins.)
30 years ago I got stuck for a whole day in some God-forsaken airport, where the only book I could find was Strieber's Communion, which had just come out then. There was a perfect description of SP on the very first page. This decidedly second-rate novel was subsequently turned into a third-rate movie. I remember watching half an hour of it on TV once, till I started losing the will to live and switched channels.
Seriously though, there's not likely to be a "cure" for SP, even in your lifetime. It's not a disease, it's just a minor brain glitch. Everyone gets it at least once or twice in a lifetime, but around 5% of us get it on a regular basis. You'd do better to focus your attention and energies on managing it rather than chasing after a cure.