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Coping with full time work and nightmare peri

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Dazednconfused
Dazednconfused

Anyone else out there struggling with full time work while coping (or not in my case) with Peri/meno?

I have to work full time but the fatigue, brain fog, headaches etc etc make it so hard. I've tried HRT but it just seems to exacerbate my symptoms so gave up, and the fortune I've spent on supplements has been mostly unsuccessful. Just wish it would end, but being pretty regular the light at the end of the tunnel seems a frighteningly long way off!

Apologies for the moan, but it's been a long week - and it's only Tuesday! Lol

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  • sazzie42
    sazzie42 Dazednconfused

    Posted

    I'm with you there. It's like having an outer body experience. I'm there but I'm soo not there.

    It's really tough.

    Big hugs xx

    • Dazednconfused
      Dazednconfused sazzie42

      Posted

      Hey sazzie

      That's exactly how it is - an out of body experience! I had no idea it would be like this - as you say it's tough going.

      Hoping the promise of post menopausal zest is not a false one. Guess we'll find out when/if we get there!

      Thanks for your reply - always nice to know you're not alone.

      Big hugs back xx

    • Guest
      Guest Dazednconfused

      Posted

      Yes!  Sazzie's description is exactly what I feel.  Haven't tried HRT yet but may have to as I'm having a lot of trouble with anxiety and sadness.  Have tried some supplements but can't tell a difference.

      Big hugs to both of you! ??

  • chelo
    chelo Dazednconfused

    Posted

    Ditto... 🤕
    • Dazednconfused
      Dazednconfused chelo

      Posted

      Love your succinct comment!

      It ain't easy is it!

      Hoping your working day hasn't been too bad today - hang in there it's nearly the weekend! ??

  • sharcerv52408
    sharcerv52408 Dazednconfused

    Posted

    I can't begin to imagine what working full time would be like with these crazy symptoms!Thankfully I am still at home with my kids but even that is a full time job and can be challenging with these symptoms. I feel for you though.

    • Dazednconfused
      Dazednconfused sharcerv52408

      Posted

      Thanks Sharcerv! Yes children are a full time job and anyone who thinks they aren't hasn't been there! Definitely challenging with Peri/ meno in the mix!

      One day this will all be in the dim distant pass - roll on!

      All best wishes x

    • sazzie42
      sazzie42 Dazednconfused

      Posted

      Remember to pat yourself on the back. X children are the most rewarding and can be most challenging x well done on your day x

      Take care x

  • Bdawn
    Bdawn Dazednconfused

    Posted

    I can relate. I'm turning 51 and haven't had a period in 7 months. I work full time but I rarely sleep for more than a few hours a night. Then at work I'm exhausted, forgetful and irritable. I'm in no rush to become a senior citizen but sometimes I long for retirement.

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