Damaged my man parts, hasn't healed.

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Long story short the past 8 months I would binge masturbate and even ignore the pain of doing it 5-6 times a day and usually mildly rough. Well it got to the point now I can't even touch it without it hurting on the left side where the "muscle" or whatever it is is located. The pain will then emit into the testicles especially when sitting. But the pain also is on the sides of my pelvis as well and sometimes shoots down the left thigh/leg. Whenever I do masturbate and ejaculate it doesn't hurt but my tip will hurt after which makes no sense as well. I also cannot get erect unless I try very hard like it is damaged and the "muscle" is damaged and when I do masturbate it's extremely sensitive like the nerve endings are damaged. It's been like this for a while now and I've gone 2 weeks without touching it twice just for it to resurface after masturbating (even with a different grip and very lightly). There's no physical problems that I can see and I am able urinate fine but have noticed my bladder and/or prostate is weakened (which I've had issues with before). I also must note I've done a lot of binge drinking and smoking this last year, but I find it strange that would tie in at the same time of the physical abuse pain. I'm just not sure what it is anymore and I'm on the verge of seeing a physician whenever I can but that will at least be 2 weeks. I will add when I took my 2 week breaks it did seem to get a little better but I just want to be assured it will go away so I can be normal again. It's been making me very depressed thinking about it because I put a lot of weight on these things. Last thing is I haven't had sex with someone in over a year so I've ruled out UTI's or STDS since I've been on the UTI route before and they show themselves blatantly for me. Any help or suggestions are welcomed.

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    Hey Buddy

    I don't need to see anything. I'm going to try to tell you what I think or could be wrong. I have read your post a few times and see if I can help you.

    First thing the penis is a muscle. If you masturbated 5 to 6 times you hurt that muscle. That tube take time to fill and empty.. I have done it 4 times and it does hurt. I can tell you that. What you need to do is let it heal. The tube that is on the left must get most of the trauma from your fingers with you pressing against it. So that will hurt more.

    You also have to remember that everything in that area is connected. If your groin or your testicles hurt you can take a hot bath for 20 minutes, This will help the groin relax and if you have any inflammation this will help also.

    I think you are going to have to relax on the masturbation. Maybe once a week so you can heal. Your going to have to do it gentle so you don't hurt it any more. Let's say if you have a pulled muscle in your shoulder. That takes a while for it to heal because you are always using it. The only time you have to heal is at night when you are sleeping.

    Please it does not help to be depressed. That is not going to help the problem. Give it sometime and see what happens. Another thing you could try is put a heating pad on you lap. I don't know if it will help but it will not hurt you. You put heat on your back or shoulder if you have pain. Why not the penis.

    God Bless....Be safe....Ken.

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      So do you think it taking 2-3+ weeks to heal or at least become somewhat normal is... normal? I mean I have had smaller muscles like my calves get overworked and it took weeks for it to heal so I guess that could be good. Plus without any noticeable things it's a good sign there's no scar tissue or something. Sorry, I ramble and now you can see why I worry lol. Thanks for the reply though it really helps 😃

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      Yes give it time. It may take longer then 2 or 3 weeks Yes it inside. It's no problem. Just try to relax and take care of yourself

      Be safe. I'm here if you need to talk....Ken

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    "Last thing is I haven't had sex with someone in over a year". It does not matter a year ago or days ago, a lot of people or just one intercourse.

    Problems with the prostate. So, I assume you have acute or chronic prostatitis long ago.

    Now, for what you write orchitis which is mainly due to a number of bacteria as well as prostatitis.

    You should visit an urologist in order to study very well your sexual history and exclude these conditions.

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