Date for TVH and pre op
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I have now had my date through for TVH which is the 20th july, I thought I was ok about it all but since I got the letter I keep having mini melt downs. They have said 3 nights in hospital which will be the longest I have ever left my little ones, my son is only 4 and so won't really understand.
My pre-open is tomorrow and is expected to take 90mins.
For those of you who have had a TVH how long did you have a catheter and how much did you bleed? Trying to figure out if I need mightiest or if I can get away with Pjs, also were you shaved for it?
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froggy28 Anna-H
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shani1953 Anna-H
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You really don't have anything to worry about if my experience is anything to go by.
I went down at 9.00 for my op. Had an epidural (which I was scared of!) - felt nothing. Given general anaesthetic and next thing I knew I was waking up in recovery at 11.00 and thought I was still waiting for the op - but it had all been done!! I was back on the ward and eating lunch at 12 plus 3 cups of tea. No pain or discomfort at all. Barely any bleeding. Only had basic pain killers in hospital and then nothing when I got out as I had no pain. Signed off work for 6 weeks and it was more like a holiday. I am now 5 months post op and back to normal fitness, walking, running etc. The whole experience was a complete doddle, so don't be worried. Catheter was taken out after 24 hours and I actually found it quite nice not having to get up to the toilet for the first day!!
My only word of warning is don't be fooled into thinking you are back to normal too soon. I bent awardly to take a plug out of a socket and although I had no pain I did have a heavy bleed at 2 weeks post op. You really do have to take it easy for the first few weeks but you'll be fine I'm sure.
Best wishes
Sharon x
marie_1964 Anna-H
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jacqueline67292 Anna-H
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Hope your pre-op went well. Very scary the thought of being away from home isn't it.
I had my op at 10 a.m. Friday 3rd April and the catheter and the pack were taken out at 6 a.m. on the Saturday morning. If I hadn't done my dying duck routine I would have been discharged at 10 a.m. but I had to stay until 4 p.m. They did warn me on the forum about the pack, but it did not prepare me at all! Still I was pretty impressed with how quick I got home and no pain whatsoever!
Nighties which button up the front are easiest to handle. I wasn't shaved at all, which surprised me, they told me not to wax or the op would be cancelled so I just left it and so did they!
We are always here when you have a melt down or the wobblies.
Love
Jacqui
Anna-H
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Roll on the 20th July, I am only expecting 2 periods before then and then never again!!!! Yey!
jacqueline67292 Anna-H
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So glad your pre-op went well. I can see we are going to have to keep our eyes on you as you might be 'behaving badly' after the op.
Keep up the exercises.
Love
Jacqui
jacqueline67292 Anna-H
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Just wanted to wish you luck for the 20th. Will be thinking of you. Let us know how you get on.
Love
Jacqui
Anna-H jacqueline67292
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Thank you, feeling quite nervous but think I am ready now, just trying to keep myself busy in the last few day.
Anna xx
jacqueline67292 Anna-H
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Hang on in there, if the nerves get too much try some meditation. YouTube have some lovely relaxing ones, worth a look. Also the calmer you are makes the healing better. I know easy for me to say, good luck and see you 'on the other side' and on the road to recovery.
Love
Jacqui
phoebewhite Anna-H
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Phoebe.