Dating With Depression?
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Quick question.
How many of you that suffer with depression are dating someone with depression.
An does it help knowing that you both know what it's like or does it make it harder when you both suffer from depression.
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QACab
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What does matter in both cases is to get medical help. Trying to fight it oneself is very hard and requires the sort of discipline which suggests that person may never get depression. As I have said in other threads here there is a lot one can do oneself. This is a question of mind over matter. It means being driven to think positive. Instead of looking back one should always look forward and include memories of all the good things one can remember; superb holidays, simple days when everything in the world seemed at peace, fond thoughts about a loved one, success in anything no matter how small it may seem, and more.
Our brains are such wonderful organs; use them.
QACab
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Mtm
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Wings_of_the_Pegasus
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I may only be 31 even though i feel older if not look older too but sometimes i get like your wife where i shut everyone out even those who try to help in fact with me its best no one tries to help as i just go off at them.
I know that their trying to help even at the time im going through it but its kind of like a layer or a mask that prevents me from excepting it an when im like that i just go to bed an hope that when i wake up its passed or if not then its going to be a very bad start to an already boring day and for me everyday is boring consisting of the same tedious routine.
Mtm
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Wings_of_the_Pegasus
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an im curious as to if you know what triggered it as wit me its always a song or a date that reminds me of something bad.
As for the pot im surprised shes not mellowed out or relaxed
Guest
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Some medication can help but that means seeing the GP. But there may be a chance visit to the GP for another purpose. I am well aware how easily a patient can hide symptoms from their GP so I suggest that you visit the GP to explain the situation, then in the event that a visit happens the GP will see from notes onscreen what you have said and carry out a word test as part of the routine. Then it will be up to the GP to persuade your wife that she needs some help and hopefully matters can then improve.
We are into mind games here. Your wife's rational thoughts have been subjugated by others. For whatever reason is not the point. What is important is to promote positivity as much as possible. That measn doing things that may have become difficult for you after such a long period. But persevere because I feel sure you want to help her recover her normal equanimity. Positive thought can help if only be excluding the negative.
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My comments above were made after I had read only your first post. The emails I get do not take me further than the relevant post. Now I see your additional post there is greater cause for concern because nobody can self medicate using alcohol and or pot (drugs). Both of those are prolonging the problem. Seeing the GP is now imperative.
Mtm
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