Dating with herpes.
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Why is it so difficult to find people who are open minded to the issue? I've had herpes for 9 years and I've had every reaction in the book. People who are disgusted. People who think it's some sort of fetish. Where are all the normal accepting people?
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LostnConfused jxo
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cartercali jxo
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Like it's crazy
I didn't ask for this disease and the person that infected me never once let me know they had it .. Otherwise I wouldn't of went for it
So I mean can I blame them ??
How has your process been with the disease so far ??
How many outbreaks ? The person that infected you .. You don't communicate with them ? Did you ever try to make the stuff right between them ?
jxo cartercali
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I live had it for a long time now so I rarely get outbreaks anymore. After I found out I had it I completely shut the guy out of my life and never spoke to him again.
cartercali jxo
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and i can honestly say that contracting this disease has opened my eyes up quite alot.. like totally and completely .
before i caught this disease i wouldnt of even considered anything like this and i guess you can say that its just karma.. you know
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i mean the person that infected me finally admitted to infecting me and actually apologized to me.. the mother of his child he claims doesnt even have it .. how in the world is that possible ?! when me and him only had sex twice unprotected..only god knows how many times him and the other female does..
i have no idea how to date someone with this thing .. i mean i didnt and wouldnt of accepted the disease before i had it so i cant be mad at someone else for thinking the same way i did.. condom or not i seriously couldnt risk myself like that.. but wth.. karma came back to me i can say that ..
my main question for you is how do you come out and tell people about the disease ? at one point i was totally confidence now things have changed drastically ..
the only person that knows about what i have is my boyfriend ./ current and i have no idea what is going on with us or if we are even gonna be together.. i dont want him to feel like he is tied down.. you know ?
since you have had this virus have you been in a serious relationship ? how did that work out if you dont mind me asking ..
Alexinator jxo
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Helpunderstand jxo
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Really struggling to come to terms with it
jenny37667 Helpunderstand
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jenny37667 jxo
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Have you ever got rejected by someone you really like?
alexs55 jxo
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I think you are having this for now 9 years , you can be a guiding point for many of us, who has got this HSV in recent time. I am a 27 year male with HSV 2 (G) and i got this because somebody was dishonest about his status, I dont want to blame her because i should have used proper protection by myself. I got this 2 months back and i have couple of questions for you:
1. How has been the journey so far physically, in term of nerve pain(even i dont see any visible outbreak but i have pain near my groin), outbreaks.
2. How has been your love life so far ?
3. How old are you now?
jenny37667 alexs55
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m28548 jenny37667
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