Deep depression for long time
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Really not sure what to say anymore . Have been very depressed for I can't even remember for how long . Love of my life came along and made me happy and felt alive again . Then she ran off and it's been a downward spiral for me . Got one grate friend and don't think they know how deeply depressed I am . And how much pain I really am in and suffering . People just say get over it . Yea right . Like to see them in my position and try just to get over it . Can't seem to do anything right . Really don't care if something happens to me anymore .
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lynne82155 steve15331
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Sorry that you are feeling bad, have you ever been treated for depression?
Im not a doctor but Ive been dumped and felt very low, but I can also say that I have depression and anxiety and the two are not the same.
Feeling down after a break up or a death is very very sad, talk to someone and if you think you cant cope go see your doctor.
Take care
steve15331 lynne82155
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lynne82155 steve15331
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It wont go away on its own.
Meanwhile try and talk to a family member or friend it does help[
Stay strong
tanya73074 steve15331
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I have suffered with depression and (recently diagnosed) ptsd for so long now, I don't know what it feels like to be at peace.
I can understand where you are at now, where you start to numb, the hope is fading and all you are left with are these crippling thoughts of you rationalising your death. But I can't give up. I can't let the people who hurt me win.
I am sorry to hear about your ex. Do you find being in a relationship saves you somewhat? There energy keeps you going? I felt like that, but I realised it probably wasn't the healthiest thing and I needed to sort me out before I dragged someone into my mess.
I have one friend, but I don't tell her how I feel. Not honestly. She makes me laugh and treats me like I am a normal person, I don't want to make her feel any different towards me or for her to know I'm a little... 'insane in the membrane'.
This pain is too real, I feel it too. This raw burning pain that follows me around with a dull ache of sadness. I don't want anything to happen to you, we do not deserve this pain. Let's work some of this out together before we turn into stone.
All my best, Tanya. X
steve15331 tanya73074
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tanya73074 steve15331
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I do wish I had a magic wand where i could vanish all of your pain and suffereing in an instant, but would that really help? Would you ever recognise how far you've truly come and how strong you are if I was just to make it all dissapear now?
Yes, it's crappy you no longer have her, but I believe you could learn something from this experience, try to find some positives? It may help?
I think you need to find yourself too, it seems you have spent so much time relying on her for your happiness and wellbeing you have neglected finding that in yourself by your own. When I feel I need to discover myself again I do something I enjoy, draw, play piano, do something I used to love to doing but forgot how much i loved it.
I understand that you don't want to burden your friends with your problems, maybe if you felt you could talk to them you could open up a whole new level of friendship beyond what you have now.
Plus, if speaking to your friend is not something you feel ready to do yet, you could always come on here and make friends with all of us on this site. Never feel lonely, there is people out there that want to help.
Much love, Tanya
stevo1975 steve15331
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steve15331 stevo1975
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hypercat steve15331
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All meds are different and because one or two made you feel more suicidal then it doesn't follow that every med would. It is common anyway to feel worse on meds until they kick in properly after about 6 weeks. x
sharla_94860 steve15331
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stevo1975 sharla_94860
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