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Depressed bf thinks he doesn’t love me

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ralitsa1313
ralitsa1313

hello i am seeking for help rn because i am in a really bad mental situation

so lets start off.Well me and my bf are together from 2 years and i love him with my whole heart but 1 month ago he decided he wanted to break up because he had lost feelings but 2 weeks later he came back and told me he loved me and that he wants me so we got back together but he started acting strange (he has a lot of problems with his parents and that why i think he is depressed) I dis my research and a lot of people experiance this when their partner is depressed,but one day he loves me and says he is afraid of loosing me and the other day he says he doesnt think he loves me anymore or that he doesnt want to fight for our relationship and rn i want to help him with this state because he was never like this and i know he loves me and he is just confused but i really need advice rn on the whole situation.I will appreciate it with my life.

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  • sam18386
    sam18386 ralitsa1313

    Posted

    hi ralitsa, i think it sounds like the depression your boyfriend has is doing all the talking. i think when you partner is depressed you need support too. you could speak to your doctor about this because he's making your mental health bad too. if you get the depression under control with your partner you can tell whether it's his depression or not. good luck! x

  • TruckerM
    TruckerM ralitsa1313

    Posted

    Hi ralitsa1313

    Yes, It sounds like your boyfriend is suffering from depression or some sort of issues.

    The only thing you can do in this scenario is try and motivate him to work through his issues (with the help of a professional) and support him.

    All the best

    TruckerM

  • joshuapryce1987
    joshuapryce1987 ralitsa1313

    Posted

    Reassure him that you love him and will always be there for him. He needs assurance that you care.

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