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depressed can't live much more.

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nige20448
nige20448

Hi  I  can't  cope  much longer  living without  my past  partner   friends  job  house   and the way life was then  been 4 years now  but it's got worse  over that time  because  I have had  not much  life  I stay in  almost  all  the time  I got one best mate  who is on  his  own  and  ask me to  go  and stay  with him  and  start going  out  and about  and try  having a bit  of  live  but  I feel  scared  because  if I can't   cope   what will happen to me  I still want to live  but  can't  without  my past  I am lost  I am scared  and  feel just like  a little boy   instead  of  Man  in his  50s  . I am obsessed  with past   I have had lots of  help  keep saying it's  depression  .  Do  anyone  have  any ideals  on this.

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  • verity56501
    verity56501 nige20448

    Posted

    Hi I suffer with this to not necessary the past but life. Are you on medication? If not I suggest you go and see your doctor ?
    • nige20448
      nige20448 verity56501

      Posted

      Hi  thanks  for your reply  yes I am on  Meds  and seen  lots  of people   just  can not cope  much longer  without  my old life  . Nige
  • cindy80253
    cindy80253 nige20448

    Posted

    I would get on an antidepressant fast, effexor works for me. You need to realize the past is just that. Your young still and can meet new people. Maybe GOD has a differnent plan for you. It took me till 55yrs old to get it together 

    Look to a better future and stop looking at what was.You can't go backwards in life as much as we want it.

    Been there done that. Try doing a little each day and doing new things.

     

    • nige20448
      nige20448 cindy80253

      Posted

      Hi thanks for replying   I am on Meds  and also seen lots of people  but not much help  all I lost  was all I ever wanted  I am in my 50s  but feel  like a little boy  can't cope with  life   like it is but still want to live  .

  • cindy80253
    cindy80253 nige20448

    Posted

    Nige, I don't want to preach to you any but I was where you are X5years ago but worse. Then I found Jesus and started going to a church and it totally changed my life forever. I'm getting off meds and the depression is now gone. I've met the best of people and now I no for sure there's a better life than this. I'm no longer scared, afraid, worried

    nothing. Just happy. Maybe you could just give it a try.

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