Depression
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I am wondering if anyone can give me some advice. I have recently been diagnosed with depression which I have suffered from for 15years. I have a mother who I would also say suffers from depression but she would not admit it. Is there anyway I can get her to see a doctor without her saying no. I also think she has a obsessive compulsive disorder and I am concerned that this is effecting her quality of life. I want to help her but she doesn't listen to me. How can I get her to get the help that she needs?
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That's a tough dilemma and i honestly feel for you. As your mum is an adult she is entitled to decline medical treatment/appointment. Have you got any aunts or uncles that could also try and persuade her to see a doctor? Or maybe she has a close friend that you can speak to? I think if she was a danger to herself or others would medical intervention be given without her consent. Do you share the same doctor? If so perhaps it would be helpful to speak to your doctor about your concern for your mother? As this situation will clearly impact on your depression. Perhaps the doctor may be able to talk your mother Into agreeing to see him/her if your mother is led to believe it may help you.
I'm sure this must be really worrying for you, but please don't lose sight of getting yourself better too.
god bless
Lorraine xx
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I am here for you Anytime ...I honestly mean that xxx
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what an excellent idea! You make an awful lot of sense to me. It sounds like things have been really tough for you and yet....you have mentioned a blog to help others. How wonderful you are!
My children had the same situation as you eg i raised them on my own and had no close or distant family. I use to feel so dreadful around birthdays as they only had presents from me and sometimes their friends. How are you feeling this evening any better in terms of your depression. Did the doctor prescribe antidepressants? Stay in touch
god bless xx
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I'm writing to you to say that I am glad that you now have a diagnosis. You have Severe Depression. It may sound contradictory to say I am glad but now you know what you're dealing with health wise. I'm afraid there's nothing much you can do to persuade your Mother on getting help with her depression. It has to come from her; the 'asking for help' bit. Best advice I can give is to talk to someone you trust completely to ease the burden. Eat right, sleep well, see friends, do things you enjoy & treat yourself kindly. Good luck!
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