Depression and mono
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Hi, I'm on month eight of glandular fever and doing a lot better since my awful relapse last month, where I am now having three out of seven good days a week, which is a huge improvement. Despite seeing improvements and trying to remain positive, I just feel so low all the time and depressed. I keep finding myself crying at the smallest and silliest things, and just feel so down. I didn't know whether to go to the doctor but I'm not sure it would be the right thing to be put on anti-depressants as I'm pretty sure this depression is a symptom of this horrible virus. Has anyone else also had this constant feeling of depression?
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lori93950 jess14025
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yes ! its a common symptom and i just went on a very low dose of prozac 5 mg . im going to give it a try only on day 4 . its helping a lot with sleep and im able to sleep really well on it .
not sure what the side effects will be but for now i couldnt go on or get better with limited and very poor sleep . maybe give it a try to just 'get you through this' its a very harsh evil cruel virus and plays havoc on your whole body mind and spirit .
Dodge81 jess14025
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I'm now on month 8 too. The depression has played a part for me....mainly in the morning when I first wake up...I have really bizzare thoughts that my life is over. I'm back at work now and trying to keep my mind on other things. I also refuse to take pills for it but give never confessed to the doctor about it. I just try to remain positive and think That everyone who has had this virus has eventually recovers. I remember when I was in hospital for the night feeling really sorry for myself and the lady next to me had leaukemhia. That made me realise it could be worse.
lori93950 Dodge81
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yes i can tell from being on the womens hormone forum too that there are far less people in the EBV forum which is a good sign ! for us ! its a b***h virus and so so tough .
lori93950 Dodge81
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also .... you are doing really well being back at work ! i only get a few ok hours a day and sometimes none at all but trying to accept it 'for now. ' definitely tell your dr about how you feel ....sometimes pills can help until youre stronger. i take pills to sleep and xanax as needed just to 'get me through this '
david_65565 jess14025
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I'm on month 10 and it does get better , thats a fact . The mornings are the hardest for me too . This horrible virus brings on the weirdest symptoms . I also do not take pills but if it helps i would not be against it either . What you have to do is be strong , don't over do it and eat as healthy as you can . Rest when your body calls for it and stop the Google part . Your body will recover when its ready . IT just takes a lot of time to recover . What i can tell you is I'm having 5 to 8 good days in a row now and two months ago i only had a few good hours a week . It will pass with time hang in their ..
lori93950 david_65565
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thats great news David ! so glad you are on the mend . gives us all hope but 10 months its just too long ...too much time wasted. once we are all fully revovered i know we will make every second count and appreciate life so much more !
craig07920 jess14025
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Hi Jess,
Oh it's so understandable and definitely is a common symptom to go through depression when dealing with mono. When something goes on so long and you feel so unwell, worried and drained for such a period, it just weighs you down Jess I know that for sure. I definitely went through depression with the virus, I just want you to know that it does get better and doesn't last forever. A physical change will come too and with that a lift in your mood will come Jess, for me it was 10 months before a major breakthrough so just hang in there, it's different for everyone but I truly believe you won't have to go through anything like as intense or as harsh as these last 8 months again, and that full recovery lies ahead.
Anti-depressants are something I've been on most of my adult life, they have helped me for sure Jess and it's certainly worth discussing with your doctor. I know not a decision you want to make or make lightly, but definitely they can make a big difference - it does take a few weeks for them to get into your system and start working properly but when you feel so low and down you just need that help sometimes Jess. And if there is someone close to you that you trust, a friend or a family member who is kind and understand, do confide in them and talk to them about how you're feeling Jess - it's so important to talk and not carry all the burdens yourself. God will get you through this Jess, and remember of course you can message on here any time too when not feeling great, the guys here know what it's like to go through this and there are so many good and understanding people which is always a great help to me too.
Thinking about and remember - one day at a time - don't put any pressure on yourself and remember this is only temporary and you WILL get through this and feel better again, physically and mentally.
Craig
Guest jess14025
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my biggest advice to all as someone who had been on antidepressants for years is do no take them. They may give you some relief now but wont fix the problem. Unfortunately feeling low and down is a part of life, its something your mind should deal with, hiding it from your mind is not a good thing. trust me. pain is a part of life and no matter how you are feeling it WILL get better
dominika20801 jess14025
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Hi Jess,
for me the depressed feeling was weighing me down for so long, it was horrible. in fact, it all started with depression and anxiety for me, before any other symptoms showed up. During the summer when i was at my worst i went to the doctor to see if i could try antidepressants because i was so anxious and unhappy 24/7. I did try them but in the end opted not to take them. my mood did not improve overnight but slowly as i got better and went back into the routine of things i started to forget about worrying and the negative feelings faded away. my worst months for me mentally were end of july and august. now its november and i feel almost like myself again. I still have the occasional bad day or couple days but i can tell my mood is beginning to regulate again.
antidepressants arent for everyone but sometimes for those of us who need a little push in the right direction its nothing to be ashamed of. that being said, its also not a decision to be made lightly if you ever consider it.
i am sure however that this feeling will not be forever for you as it seems the majority of people suffer with it and it all seems to eventually go away. I wish you the best and the best advice i can give you is to go out to a nice park or somewhere you feel comfortable and talk about it to a close family member or friend, because it helps so much to get the feelings off your chest and socialize a bit, even if it feels like such a chore.
craig07920 dominika20801
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Hi Ant / Dominika,
I hope you are both feeling settled at the moment and seeing some improvements - remember hang in there and believing that things are going to get better for you thanks to God.
I guess everyone's experience of medication is different. For me I've been on anti depressants most of my adult life and they have helped me and most of the time been able to be generally well whilst on them. They do take some time to get into your system and work properly that's for sure, and it's not something that should be jumped onto lightly without discussing with doctor. And of course I know they're not a magic cure or anything, but when feeling so low they can help lift your mood and have been good for me in that respect. Everyone is different though for sure and it's about finding what works for you and for some people this medication may not be the best or right option, whilst for others it may be for sure.
Whatever just hoping everyone is doing well and wishing you all the best.
Craig
craig07920 dominika20801
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P.S. Dominika you continue to show wisdom beyond your years - you are a very special young person and you have shown so much courage and determination during this tough time you've been through. I do hope and pray you are feeling settled and well at the moment - keep in touch and remember message any time!