Depression differentiation – anhedonia

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Is this depression, or something else -

Loss of sexual feeing for orgasm (not erectile disfunction - the mechanical side to ejaculation functions as normal)

Loss of merry feeling after a pint or two of beer - just feel tired - more alcohol just increases tiredness & introduces lack of motor co-ordination - i.e. the mechanical side proceeds as normal !)

Reduction in pleasurable experience with food tastes - all seem to be as before but missing something, leading to an increase in intake (& consequential increase in weight) & preference for stronger tastes.

Pleasure from the relaxation part of Yoga has gone - just tend to feel tired, tendency to fall asleep (embarrassing....)

Level of tiredness has generally increased, I awake feeling slightly tired & this continues all day, I have not felt properly alert since the symptoms appeared.

Possibly due to tiredness, I don't feel so anxious in situations in which I used to feel anxious, neither do I feel excited in situations where I would previously have felt excited.

I have found this is sometimes referred to as anhedonia.

This has not affected my work as I can still think whist slightly tired (much practice as a student....)

And there is not a great effect on social life from others' points of view as things mostly go on as habit - even my wife hasn't noticed over the last 5 yrs since this occurred - but I no longer feel pleasure to look at scantily clad women (not that I would voluntarily do so I hasten to add.....)

I have seen my doctor a number of times - apparently ruling out diabetes & loss of testosterone, but due to no great effect on my lifestyle I have not liked to concern him over much, and further analysis seems difficult.

Depression was hypothesised, and I had a number of sessions with a counsellor in which I concluded that 'Depression' probably wasn't the problem, however I tried an anti-depressant medication.

This was unsustainable as it affected my confidence in physical activity, and made me feel very disoriented - no good for cycling to work, nor for doing any thinking whilst I was there. In fact I had no confidence to dare leave the house for a couple of days (fortunately a week-end), until the effects wore off.

I decided to remain 'as is' until I could analyse the problem to a specific solution, or had the time to spare to spend 3 or more weeks in the house, off work (assuming the medication effects stabilised to enable a functional status in that period).

[b:cee2971c9e]Has anyone else experienced these symptoms (I am surely not unique...) -

Are they a variant of Depression, or do they have a specific physical cause ?

If so, what are the possibilities ? [/b:cee2971c9e]

I have considered a large number of possibilities in addition to the couple of obvious ones above, but nothing seems to quite fit.

Things like pituitary disorders, tumours, prostrate, stroke, etc.

I find it very frustrating as a physicist to have such ill-defined problems and ill-defined remedies as occur in medicine.

Finding the language to adequately define the problem is a major block in the current situation.

I know fairly precisely how I feel, and the symptoms, but matching these to the solution space appears very difficult in this instance, I understand my doctor's difficulty.

Any help would be much appreciated, I am severely short of an adequate plan of action.

I'll look in from time to time.

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  • Posted

    Hello Qwerty, you do indeed have a number of things with non specific illness. I am not a doctor or nurse but a housewife who has had a lot of experience with depression in my own life and of those in my previous employment. I think perhaps the best thing to start off with is the events centred round about the time when all this started,maybe there is something there that will help you understand your feelings.

    If not, then the next thing to think about is your diet, if it is depression then you should know that there are some foods which will boost your seratonin levels naturally.

    Next, before considering taking any drugs try the alternatives from a health shop, like St John's Wart, or 5HTP, if you were female I would also suggest Menopace.

    What about your age? Is it possible that it could be the male equivilant to the menopause, and I'm not joking when I say that.

    You mentioned a lot of tiredness, check your iron levels to look for anaemia, I know that probably your doctor may have done some of these things already but this is something you can do for yourself making you feel more in control of the situation, and I know that you are an intelligent man so forgive me if it seems like I'm talking to a teenager.

    Depression is not something that can be analysed in a cold way because it comes from our emotions and is considered a mental illness.

    Sometimes the source of our depression is not so easy to pinpoint, especially when it started, because it can creep up on you without much warning. It is always associated with severe stress of somekind, whether the source is a major physical illness or the mental stress of looking after a sick relative, employment or lack of it, moving house, death of a relative. It may not even show itself until after the event which was the initial trigger.

    Symptoms; bearing in mind everyone is different.

    DISTURBED SLEEPING PATTERN

    LACK OF APPETITE SNACKING MORE

    TIREDNESS, MORE A FEELING OF WEARINESS

    EMOTIONAL, LACK OF CONCENTRATION,

    FORGETFULNESS mainly small details,

    LACK OF SEX DRIVE

    STOPPING THE HOBBIES YOU LOVE

    IRRITATION, events and people,

    NO TOLLERANCE FOR LOUD NOISE

    Most of the above are all real feelings but nothing there that would automatically send anyone running to see a doctor, because they would feel as if they were wasting the doctor's time, I dont know if this is of any use to you but I hope that it helps in some way.

    I have been living with depression for 4 years and not on medication all the time, only occasionally, like now, my drug is Citalopram, but I know the source of my illness and that it will go away, I just dont know when.

    I am my husband's carer and he is terminally ill, but I dont want sympathy, I want you to try and help yourself, best of luck, Dusty.

  • Posted

    Yep..lets list them...

    Lack of interest in shopping

    Sex

    food

    children

    jobs

    locking doors

    Tidy ..ness

    sleep

    I cant.

    Phone friends

    Self interest...more interested in loathing!

    Have difficulty concentRATING IN ANY GIVEN THING/

    NO SLEEP

    AGITATED!

    FRUSTRATED

    REPEATED THOUGHTS, ROUND AND ROUND THEY GO, OVER AND OVER!

    DEEP LONELINESS AND DESPAIR.

    CANT TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE!

    TRAPPED FEELING INSIDE. I would rather put a black bin linner over my head! FREAK!

    iIs this how you feel, or is it just me?

  • Posted

    Yep..lets list them...

    Lack of interest in shopping

    Sex

    food

    children

    jobs

    locking doors

    Tidy ..ness

    sleep

    I cant.

    Phone friends

    Self interest...more interested in loathing!

    Have difficulty concentRATING IN ANY GIVEN THING/

    NO SLEEP

    AGITATED!

    FRUSTRATED

    REPEATED THOUGHTS, ROUND AND ROUND THEY GO, OVER AND OVER!

    DEEP LONELINESS AND DESPAIR.

    CANT TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE!

    TRAPPED FEELING INSIDE. I would rather put a black bin linner over my head! FREAK!

    iIs this how you feel, or is it just me?

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