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I'm a 25 year old man with my own failing business that i absolutely hate. I live abroad with my girlfriend of 5-6 years who likes living here where as i hate it. We moved from England to Mallorca just over a year ago and i thought it was the correct decision for us both, but now i want to move back closer to both my girlfriends family and mine.
My girlfriend is from Ireland and i would love to move there but she wouldn't. She is always saying she would love to be round her family more but yet wont move. I very rarely get to see my parents who live in England due to money and the cost of travelling there. It's causing me serious Anxiety and Depression and is quite frankly ruining my life. We are treated as second class citizens, have no friends and have no real chance of making a nice living as my business i failing and is seasonal and my girlfriend is in a dead end job that pays a terrible wage. There is no jobs because of the way Mallorca as an island works ie: its Massively over populated and practically everything is seasonal. And don't take this the wrong way but i HATE the people that populate this island.
I have been to speak to a professional but she didn't help at all and i have only got worse since seeing her. All she did was suggest i should take medication which i don't want to do as i'm only 25 and would rather sort the situation i'm in first.
I totally understand that moving will be hard but we have moved around before working abroad ect and moving back to Ireland and closer to England would at least bring us closer to family.
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