Depression getting worse, what do I do?
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Hi,
Firstly I'd like to say thanks in advance for any help. Anyway, so for the past few months at college I've been bullied by a group of 6 people, they call me names etc and mock how my forehead is really big and say I have a receding hairline, this really gets me down. I have a girlfriend too and we have problems sometimes which also gets me down. My
mum passed away in 2015 and all I do is think about her and I get upset and more depressed. I can't find an apprenticeship, I've been looking for months. Today, my dad found out I'd been skiving college and he's in a really bad mood with me and he's annoyed. Just yesterday, I went to church to see if that helped with things and it did, people were really friendly and I had a conversation with the vicar about my mum and she was really helpful, I've decided that I'm going to go to church every Thursday to this vicar as she said you're welcome to come back whenever and have another chat, going to church definitely helped but I'm still not happy at all because of loads of things affecting me. What do I do?
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borderriever joseph60434
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You need to get on with your training and have no problems when doing that. Your bullies need to become aware of the law via the College Head of Department
Keep a Hold
BOB
Needhelp_asap joseph60434
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You should refer this to the administration right away!. The most common mistake of people who are bullied,is that they don't actually talk about it out of embarassement (which I think there is no reason to be embarassed of.) I'm sorry for your mum, my condolences. Apart from refering this to your college administration, I think you should contact your healthcare service there too,and talk to a counsellor about your depression. Don't leave it untreated.
maria_1963 joseph60434
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Msky joseph60434
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It's easy to say ignore them then to actually ignore them.I say record there nasty comments and report them for bad behavior. You might go to the Dean of students . I think that there is a sensitivity to people just being mean and creepy .You might also look into young adult small groups for your church . I belong to a small group and it has been a source of joy and has created relationships . Give it a try . My Dad raised me and he died Feb 16 ,a month into my 20 th year .He had raised me since I was 12 so I did not have much of a relationship with my mother per her constant choice . It was a really difficult lonely period . I went to a counselor and we talked about what to do next . I ended up deciding to get closer to my siblings . There are repurcussions to loss of a beloved parent , those difficulties/challenges can last for awhile . Try journaling too . Look at Devotional Bibles and look for topics that deal with grieving and loss .
amanda35274 joseph60434
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Hi joseph. Just read yr post. Some ppl are so cruel bullying isnt acceptable anywhere. U shud talk to a trusted counsellor & maybe a friend could go with u for support get the ball rolling to putting a stop to this before it makes ya really ill. Xx seek help & kp us informed. Good luck xx 0)