Desperate for advice
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Hi folks...just discovered this group. I was diagnosed with gall stones after a very painful attack last year which required a visit to A&E, 2 lots of morphone etc. Pain subsided, long story short, consultant does not want to operate as I am overweight (therefore a risk) so I have been pain managing with Tramadol and Buscapan. Have since had a couple more bad attacks but now I am into a very different constant pain and discomfort from that area.
It;s been over a week now where there is constant discomfort around my upper torso, like I've been trampled by a herd of elephants..a tightening pain under my chest....it increasingly got worse so I went to A&E on Saturday night as could bear no more, blood tests ruled out any infection and liver function ok, I was given 2 lots of morphine, IV fluids and paracetamol, none of which shifted the pain, just eased it slightly. Came home for some sleep at 4am as I was told all I could do is increase my painkillers intake, feeling at a loss of just how much suffering do I have to put up with and willit ever pass?!
Aside from this I have a thyroid that doesn't work, high blood pressure, possibly Fibromyaligia (I also have a rubbish Doc who basically said "what difference would it make to you if I did diagnose you with Fybromyalgia?" ) Anxiety and depression....I sleep very poorly so generally always feel like rubbish so losing weight not easy but I am trying and have started going to a gym regularly...not something I enjoy...but my Doc refuses to see past my weight for ny issue which makes me reluctant to go. Was also diagnised with a folic deficiency recently so dont know if that is connected?
Anyway, my other problem is I go to Florida on holiday at the end of October (travel insurance costs a small fortune with gall stones too!) so have the dilemma of suffering this out because I really dont want to miss out on my much longed for and needed holiday if that is even possible?
All advice will be much appreciated because I am feeling so desperate about this now
Thank you
Sam
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zainy sam14939
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I personally feel u should consult a specialist so that they can guide u much better and dont lift too much weight in gym as it will increase yr pain and u all have to go again with painkillers. Do light exercises and follow a healthy diet stop eating fatty foods try to eat more with vegetables and salad or soups which will decrease yr weight but plz dont lift heavy weights....
Regards
Zain
sam14939 zainy
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Thank you for your response
jane3315 sam14939
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I had that nagging pain constantly so know how you feel. I also have and fibromylagia for twenty plus years but im not saying this will happen to everyone but my fibro symptoms have totoally gone since the gallbladder has come out.Im also sleeping so much better. I am in total shock. Its still early days but its looking very promising.Also the weight has just fallen off as I wasnt able to eat anything much.I use to struggle to loose any weight but then with Fibro we are still restricted in moving around its not surprising we find it hard to loose. I totally understand how you feel as ive been there. If you try and work out what foods are making your symptoms worse i bet you find you loose weight much eaiser. I have lost 2 and a half stone since this all blew up just cause I have not been able to eat hardly. So good things can come out of this. Do look at what your eating. I couldnt tolerate any fat what so ever not even soya milk. Meat was a big no no to. I lived on a very soft bland diet for 6 months (porridge and veg)but it did help me cope a bit better. Your Dr doesnt sound very supportive any chance you could change ?
Keep in touch and thinking of you. x
sam14939 jane3315
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Thankyou for your response, certainly makes for interesting reading! My doctor is so frustratingly patronising...it's only "one problem one appointment" whereas I feel like I have so many and all I get is more tablets and the diet lecture it's put me off going. I am trying to find another doctor worth changing to.
How long was the operation and recovery time?
jane3315 sam14939
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Keep in touch and let us know how it goes.
elaine68099 sam14939
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The only thing I can help you with is your pending holiday.
I had been suffering for nearly three years with biliary colic, and postponed three operations. I would still do my long haul traveling but would always take medications with me in my hand luggage....2 x Codeine 30mg, 2 paracetamol and 1 tramadol. So should I have an attack on the plane, they were to hand. I Would also pack loads more in my luggage. When abroad I would not go to bed without my medication near to me.
I finally had my gallbladder out last Tuesday as I could not put up with anymore. This being my last resort!
Glad to hear you're insured, as I was, this gives you some reassurance should anything happen then you're covered.
Hope everything goes well for you, keep pressuring the doctor and hopefully things should progress.
Take care and God Bless x
sam14939 elaine68099
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elaine68099 sam14939
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This did help me, but I got to the stage when I just had enough.
Im overweight and nothing was mentioned to me regarding my weight.
Perhaps put some pressure on them, or just keep going to A&E.
All the very best Sam and keep in touch
claire50325 sam14939
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Tom_Peters sam14939
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Generally the advice given to sufferes of gallstones is to go for a zero or almost zero fat diet. If you can manage to do that your weight could well fall off quite quickly. That might be enough to give the surgeon the confidence that you will comply with doctors' orders and go ahead.
Fybromyalgia is a nasty thing. There isn't a cure as such. A popular first-line treatment in the UK is tricyclic antidepressant called amitriptyline. Your doctor might be amenable to prescribing that or something similar to kill two birds with one stone. i.e. depression and FM.
Good luck.
james13344 sam14939
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sarah87162 sam14939
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Also try to find another Doctor who will actually listen to you and do something about it. It should not be like that but it is often not what you know but who you know.
Do not let them judge you, none of us is perfect.
Good luck
Take care and keep in touch
Sarah