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Me and my fiance were fighting in September 2016 I asked him to go, he went to this girls house that he's known for a long time, they were drinking and he says he slept on the couch. This girl has HSV2. We got back together I believe he did not do anything with her but I decided to get checked anyway. I have 0 symptoms so they did blood work. Test came back positive I am devastated it has been 3 days and I feel like I wanna die, like nobody will want me and my life is over. Idk much about this virus, can you spread it by coughing, sneezing, toilet seats, wash clothes? I am scared to death I will pass it to my kids. I have always had clear discharge and talked to obgyn about it before I knew I was positive for herpes and he said it is normal bc I must have been ovulating. Please give me some answers on how it can be spread and if u can get it without having sexual contact.
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Takenc Upset567
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You really haven't had any symptoms?
Upset567 Takenc
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I have had nothing. I think I may have had a little itch like a yeast infection itch but that's it nothing else. I have cried for three days straight. I didn't deserve this I never once cheated or anything
Skull2345 Upset567
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I got diagnosed on Monday with HSV2 I had some spots over Christmas which triggered me to get checked but I have not slept with anyone since May last year and didn't have any of the flu symptoms others have had. Since I got told I had a cry on the phone when I got my results and asked what I need to do to make sure my daughter is safe. The nurse advised just to use separate towels which we always have any way. I'm gutted I've been told this news and I've been single for nearly 4 years now so finding someone before this news was hard enough now I have this extra barrier. But I've had a positive week and put things in perspective that people are diagnosed with far worse life threatening things and it's give me a boost to change my lifestyle and start making changes to makes sure I fight off any outbreaks. The forums on here have helped me a lot and hope what I have said may help you. Remember take care of your self your stronger then you think.
Upset567 Skull2345
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Thank you, right now I just can't stop the whirlwind of emotions. I need to know if my kids should not share a drink with me? Or should they have different soap? I'm just lost and hurt. I also don't know if I should believe him, I mean is there any other way of getting it besides sex?
steven78649 Skull2345
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Upset567 steven78649
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I didn't have any. Never have.
kayla34219 Upset567
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But dont worry. Everyone goes through these same thoughts and emotions when finding out you have this.
I found out i am HSV-2 positive a month ago. And i freaked and i thought the same thing too.
But dont worry this virus dosnt spread that easily.
The virus can only live on the the surface for less than three seconds. So no you cannot give it to someone through toliet seats.
This only means you have to be extra careful while having intercourse.
There is medicine that you can take to reduce breakouts and viral shedding.
You should really research this virus. And talk to ur doctor.
Also if you are having a hard time handling this. You should google how to cope with having herpes. There are really great articles that helped me.
Keep your head up. You will be okay!!!!!
Upset567 kayla34219
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Thank you. Do u know if I sneeze or cough can my kids get it or if they drink after me? I tried to research it but they all say different things. My Dr won't give me anything she said til I had an outbreak. I'm afraid to tell my obgyn
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FelizCastus Upset567
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Upset567 FelizCastus
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Thank u I have no clue what blood test they did bc all she said is u tested positive for hsv1 and HSV 2. I knew I would test positive for hsv1 bc she told me if I have had chickenpox it would come back positive. I don't know the exacts.
FelizCastus Upset567
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