Disappointment

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Hi everyone,

I finally had my review appointment on Monday as it had been cancelled, so it became a 9 week review instead of six. Anyway, I didnt see the surgeon who did my LTHR he must have been one of the registrars, he was nice enough though, he only seemed interested in my scar healing and didnt want to discuss my surgery at all.  I asked him "what was my hip packed with" he became very vague so I had to rephrased it to "a problem occured with something the surgery team didnt expect so what was my hip packed with", oh you had a bone cyst and  graft he told me. He then asked me if I was back to normal things when I said the fact that I would normally walk 3 miles to the swimming pool, swim 40/50 lenghts and walk home again, so no I'm not, right he said well, they did a lot in your surgery. I am so disappointed with the appointment i  was only with him about 5 minutes,he didnt want to discuss or answer anything.

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  • Posted

    If you are

    not happy, why not write to the surgeon or phone his pa for

    another appointment. Its such a grey area with these check ups..I think if your managing the pain and can walk..thats the box ticked.. good luck. X

    • Posted

      Hi Dawn,

      Thank you for your reply, i am trying to keep quiet at the moment as I have complained before but it was about my previous surgeon, i also receive emailed questionaires regarding my recovery but these say that it is a trial, so not sure what to do.

  • Posted

    I had a similar experience. You travel all the way there, hang around in the waiting room for ages then get 5 minutes with somebody who's never seen you or your hip/knee/whatever before. I had serious complications with my THR ( long story) which meant I couldn't drive for 5 months. I'm self employed (so no sick pay) and live on my own. I was told to "employ a driver." I was speechless! I also have no idea what my hip was packed with. I hope hospital managers read this forum so that they can improve the post-op experience for people.

    • Posted

      Hi Bethan,

      Thank you for your reply, the Registrar even asked me if I have returned to normal activities I was a bit speechless to be honest, i have found that the medical profession and this includes my GP does not want to discuss or inform me of any problems that i have, i also have a spinal problem but it seems as if it is nothing to do with me.

  • Posted

    Hey there I would get another appointment to see the actual surgeon! There seems to be a lot of unanswered questions and to see someone who's not the one that did operation is crazy!! Demand to see the actual surgeon! Sorry this makes me mad especially since you are having problems. Prayers that all goes well for you and you get to feeling better. Hugs, 🤗🤗. LD

    • Posted

      Hi Linda,

      Thank you for your reply, i was so upset when I came out I nearly cryed when i got home. I cnat beleive that I'm being treated as if it is nothing to do with me.

    • Posted

      I can only imagine how you feel!! Get an appointment to see that surgeon!! Let us know how things go. 🤗🤗 hugs, LD

  • Posted

    Hi Daffi I was 7weeks when I went to hospital

    for my post op ,was really wanting to see my

    surgeon and lots of questions no chance saw

    his nurse who wanted to check my scar also

    pushed my leg one way pulled it another and

    told my to relax when i yelled when she hurt

    me(wont say what i called her under my breath)

    Ive had to fight for pyhsio also they said i would have to pay ( on sick pay) but today got call from GP and have appt for next week. After care what

    after care.Im 9 weeks post today and just started walking pretty well unaided but get tired and get

    a crutch out or i start to limp.I wish you well

    lots of hugs xxx😅

    • Posted

      Hi Anna,

      Thanks for the reply, after care and physio seem to be non existence

      also saw a nurse before the registrar, I'm finding the lack of care quite

      alarming, it sometimes feels as if they are saying 'doI have to see you're

      and' I'm getting rid of you asap'

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