Does any one really care.
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Do not no where to start really,for as long as i can remember i have suffered with constipation,then two years ago i could not pass my stools at all ,despite having medication for it, i now had prolapse Hemorrhoids, operation no one, stapled Hemorrhoidectomy,after the op i caught infections and within two weeks the Hemorroids were back with vengeance, the pain was so bad that i wanted my life to end,unable to go out,i spent hours in the bath crying, i was then rushed in as an emergency case (Op NO two) Open Hemorroidectomy, i woke up in an ears nose and throat ward,due to ward closures, i stayed in overnight,discharged home first thing in morning, i had not even had my first bowel movement,Well the next two weeks i sank to an all time low, i can not describe the pain, i had Morphine but it made me sick.i think the family were a little fed up with hearing about it, the hospital and GP were useless, it is now 9 months on and i am having MOVICOL 3 a day to ensure i can have my bowels open, have had several visits to the Hospital, Still trying all sorts of things to heal a large Fissure,Well that what they are calling it, GTN CREAMS have not touched it,As i am telling you this i am sobbing due to the pain i have experienced this morning, I am back to square one again nearly two years on, My hair is going grey with the pain, NO ONE CARES in the medical profession, i really do think i would be better off out of this world at this moment in time, I Cant keep having time off work as they really do not understand, it just seems that the bowel subject is a joke, I am told that the next step is OP NO THREE, remind me again what year we live in, as it seems that we are behind the times when it comes to healing anal Fissures, i am so sorry if if sounds like i am selfish, but its been a living hell, and i cant cope with it anymore, so for all of you out there who are experiencing Chronic pain due this subject, PLEASE PLEASE Speak up to the medical profession, Why should we have to go int dept by going private, i certainly cant afford it, but i am going to have to, i hear there is a good place in London, but i don't seem to have the fight left in me. Heather xxx
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jane1971
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This condition has ruled my life for years and i have, at times, felt that life wasn't worth living. I should have had the guts to do this ages ago but fear stood in my way.
The way the surgeon explained it is that the fissure causes the sphyncter muscle to spasm, and until the spasm is released (by cutting the muscle) the pain will not go. Each BM is like squeezing a walnut through a hole that can only stretch to the size of a pea, due to the spasming.
I wonder if this op would help you, it may be worth speaking to your consultant about it.
I wish you all the best.
Jane
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I think the staff at the hospital (A major Essex hospital) where I attended for my consulatation and pre op tests seem caring and compasionate to my probs . They do care !
Jane45
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I have been where you are, in utter agony and pretty much wanting anything to stop the pain.
Everyone in the medical profession that I have spoken to has a very good understanding of how bad these things are. I even remember my GP offering to call me an ambulance and admit me to hospital because I was in sheer agony in her consulting room.
Anyway, I hope you get sorted.
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It is so embarassing explaining to people why you are in pain and they often joke about it.
I will try the coconut oil too!
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I've been suffering from the hell of an anal fissure now for over 12 months, since having my baby boy. I can totally relate to the excruciating pain that u have or are experiencing. I was due to have the op this friday but unfortunately it has been cancelled although I have had a pre-op so I should hear something so enough hopefully. I agree that it totally controls your life! I feel that I have not been able fully enjoy the first year of being a mum due to constantly worry about when I next go to the toilet! I know to some that may sound pathetic! I think I would rather go through the pain childbirth 10 times over than carry on with this pain. Unless you have suffered from this problem know one really understands. My husband has been very supportive even though sometimes I am in the bathroom for nearly an hour just trying to go the loo!!
I am just praying the op will work for me, but having a fissure has put me off having any more children incase it was to come back!
If you are suffering, you have my sympathy! xx