Does my penis look normal?

Diego, you do not say your age now? Also, have you been sexually active, or not yet?

The lips effect on your Meatus can be simply normal development, but I have known of an STD related issue cause a similar effect - of course that would only be possible for you if you have been sexually active.

The purplish effect is also normal, so simply, for males that have, or have had phimosis the head of their penis will also be normal and that can range in many different hues of skin pigmentation and the natural blood flow that is present in the head of the penis.

With the other issue with you thumb try different masturbation techniques so you find one that you like that means your thumb is no longer where you have it now.

So yes you have the variation in colour, from the purple-hue, to the pinkish to the more greyed area at the top - this again is likely to be normal. However the only way to be 100% sure would be to get a Urologist to check it who would likely do some blood flow checks. Again a Urologist would give you a professional opinion of your Meatus.

The other more fun approach would be to learn about massage type techniques that you can apply on your penis - this would eventually help with potential blood-flow issues and may create a more uniform pinkish colour in the main part of the head of your penis.

To try this I would get something like a good quality Liquid Coconut Oil (99% pure is very good) that is for use on skin, rather than hair. Try warming a small amount of the oil and try to see the different ways you can apply it to your penis and create movement with little circular movement of your fingertips.

You are likely to need to partly-grip the loose skin of the entire shaft of your penis near to the base, but again, you will likely find different ways that work for you once you practice for a number of weeks and thereafter.

And no, this should feel nothing like masturbation, in addition, the goal is not to stimulate your penis in a masturbatory way, but to help create the circumstances for better blood flow in the areas of your penis that you apply massage movement to.

I would suggest that until you perfect your massage technique you should avoid trying to do this when your penis is fully erect - the ideal state to work from with your massaging could be when your penis is only partly erect, therefore, not flaccid, but certainly not hard

Hey, sorry this is a little off topic but how did you cure the phimosis. I am currently undergoing stretching and am scared to pull all the way back incase of the foreskin getting stuck behind the glans.