Does this look like i have herpes? Pictures***
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About 2 week ago I had sex with my for the first time with someone who I've been seeing for a little while. The sex was rough and he was pretty big so I had a little rip. The next day when I woke up it was super itchy and it went away in about 2 days.. And 4 days ago we had sex again .. I woke up feeling fine until this morning. Some blisters had appear near the entrance of my vagina. And it is soooooooooooo painful when I pee. I can hardly walk or sit it's so painful.
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Goblin92 lola91434
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Sorry to hear that you have herpes but it isn't the end of the world for you you'll learn to cope with it and the outbreaks become less overtime I was diagnosed with it 3 years ago and I sometimes become depressed myself but I still have that small bit of hope in my heart that someone would accept me even with the virus and the same will happen for you!
ml66uk Goblin92
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Having herpes (or any other STI) doesn't mean no more romance. It complicates things, but if someone likes you enough, it won't be a problem. A long time ago, I'd just started seeing a girl who broke up with me and told me she had herpes. It didn't make me want to stop seeing her though. She had at least three partners after that, so I wondered for many years if she'd made it up to break up with me. I finally got the chance to ask, and she said she does have herpes, but would have broken up with me anyway (I was way too keen apparently).
There's also a good BBC article titled "Online dating for people with sexually transmitted infections", which talks about sites which are just for people with STIs.
mikayla48601 lola91434
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I just had sex for the first time as well! My 16th birthday is in two days and I feel your pain, both physically and emotionally. I have recently been so sad but I just wanted to let you know you aren't alone.
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shanice50247 lola91434
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noemi80823 lola91434
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hey, for what its worth, i made this account just to write back to you. Im really sorry that you had to go through that. I too am also living with HSV2. I got it from my ex and i didn't find out until I was newly dating a really great guy. When i got diagnosed, i thought I had a yeast infection but i went to the doctor asap because I had shooting pains down my leg. When they told me it looks like im having a herpes outbreak, My heart felt like it stopped. i had just started seeing someone new and all i did was pray that the swab would come back negative. The guy i was seeing picked me up from the doctor and i broke down crying in his car. He looked at me and asked me whatswrong. I then told him the truth. He wasnt upset with me, he just looked at me, grabbed my hand and told me we are in this together. He told me everything will be fine. The test came back positive and they gave me some Valtrex. My new boyfriend and I did some reasearch together and we both wanted a baby so we wanted to make sure everything is safe for the baby. after some while of trying to get pregnant. I got pregnant woth a beautiful baby boy. the doctor had me on suppressive therapy to control outbreaks before i gave birth. the baby is healthy and i am engaged to a very understanding man. this is not the end of love. you will find a man who will love you for you! dont feel discouraged or embarrassed, things like this happens. & remember people can catch herpes with condoms too. it is transferred by skin to skin contact so dont ever feel 'dirty' . you are not alone.